Since Eric died last week, my other dog, Blackie, is grieving for him. I knew she would; we both are. But I'm wondering what I can do to help her grieving process.
When I'm at home, I make sure I spend lots of time with her. I groomed and bathed her and let her in the house now, which she enjoys (Eric did NOT like being in the house--he was an outdoor dog and was certain to make that clear to everyone. He never willingly came inside, even on cold nights last winter). She was always with Eric before as his companion. They were definitely the best of friends and she was sensitive to his condition, and she was also a bit protective over him.
I bring her with me places when I'm able to, like Petsmart. I want to make sure she doesn't feel left out or forgotten since Eric is gone. She loves being a part of the house life now.
But I can tell she really misses Eric. She sleeps on his bed in the kitchen at night and lays in his spot on the back porch. She doesn't seem happy anymore either. She always looks glum, even if she's wagging her tail.
I expected her to grieve for him, but I wonder if there's something more I can do. I work all day and I'm not home, so she's there by herself without her best buddy each day, except for the weekends.
I'm still in too much grief to consider getting another dog right now, but is that something I should do for her? I really don't feel like I'm ready to welcome another dog into our family because Eric's death is still such a fresh wound for me. But I also want to do what's best for Blackie so she won't feel so lonely. I wish I could bring her to work with me, but even if I could do that, I don't think that would make her much happier.
Is this something that will take as much time to pass for her as it will for me, or would another dog be the best thing for her since dogs are a pack animal?