"Is CFS and CEBV the same thing?"
IMO and from what I've seen and read.... yes. But I think it is important that your physician doesn't diagnose you right away with CFS and if he/she does diagnose you, that he/she rules out MANY other conditions and performs NUMEROUS tests on you. You could have another condition, but may not be testing positive for it yet. You may want to read my journal about a new institute (The Whittemore Peterson Institute) that is now treating and doing research on CFS, ATYPICAL MS and other neuro-immune illnesses.
Although EBV isn't the only possible "trigger" that can cause CFS symptoms. For instance, the co-founder of Petsmart and his partner both came down with a flu virus. After they were ill, they never recovered. Both of them ended up being diagnosed with CFS.
"Can CEBV or CFS cause uncontrollable muscle twitching, tingling in the hands and feet, numbness, loss of balance (almost like vertigo), and muscle weakness?"
Yes ! Muscle twitching are more signs of fibromyalgia and many CFS patients have symptoms of fibromyalgia. You may want to talk to your physician about taking magnesium (if you aren't already). I also have tingling in my hands, feet and the vertigo and muscle weakness.
Do you have unrefreshing sleep ? Headaches and muscle aches ? Any cognitive problems ?
"My doctor said that I couldn't have an autoimmune disease because my ANA marker came back negative, but my mom has MS and she said that there is no ANA marker for MS. Should I be asking for more testing?"
If you haven't had an MRI of the brain yet... you may want to ask your physician to order one and/or a spinal tap. btw... there is a national lab that apparently can diagnose fibro & CFS on spinal fluid, but the test is still in the research phase. Insurance will probably not cover this test. But if you are interested, you can google the lab's name "Red Lab USA" and find their website for more information.
"I realize that there is no "cure" for CFS or CEBV, but is there any medicines that might treat the symptoms?"
Yes ! And there are some pathogen zapping (as I call them) treatments that apparently are curing some people with CFS and even some autoimmune conditions. Here's a link:
http://www.medhelp.org/health_pages/Fibromyalgia/Treatments-for-Chronic-Fatigue-Syndrome/show/453?cid=39
"Someone told me on my other post that I should have my T3 and T4 levels tested and also be tested for the Hashimoto antibodies, but my doctor said that there was no need. Can I request this testing or does my doctor have the final say?"
IMO.. you definitely should have your thyroid levels checked. If your levels are normal (but on the lower side), consider asking your physician to order a T3 reverse and print this info for him or her:
T3 REVERSE -- "The mix of treatments needed varies from patient to patient. There are some abnormalities that are common. For instance, close to 100% of individuals with these syndromes have low thyroid. This is, however, usually not picked up on the standard blood tests because the TSH is not elevated in these individuals due to pituitary dysfunction. Many of these individuals will also have high levels of the anti-thyroid reverse T3, which is usually not measured on standard blood tests. In addition, the majority of individuals can also have a thyroid receptor resistance that is not detected on the blood tests. Consequently, thyroid treatment, especially with timed release T3, is effective for many patients. T4 preparations (inactive thyroid) such as Synthroid and Levoxyl do not work well for these conditions."
Kent Holtorf, M.D. --- link to article: http://www.immunesupport.com/fibromyalgia-treatment.htm
Have you been tested yet for lyme disease ? If not, I would recommend getting the lyme disease by PCR test. ( Lyme Borrelia Test (CPT: 87476 ) )