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ED, to much porn ect
OK, I just want see if anyone else is going through what I am. First off my name is Steven Baker and I am 25 years old.
I think that I am having Erectile Dysfunction for a few reasons I think a problem I have is because my spine use to look like an s, and it got moved around to look normal, and also because of some meds.
I have been on some strong depression meds after my Girlfriend who was going to be my wife was killed, and it had that side affect. Also I have been looking at porn when the internet came around and masturbating a lot all of the time like 5 time a day ( I know that's sad) Ok here we go, I hope that I'm not the only one, and I just hate talking about this.
I remember I never use to have ed or have any problems in my life. I remember a one night stand that I had with this college girl, when I started high school I stayed hard for a few hours. And I was able to come a lot.
I would just get turned on by talking with my late GF and had no problems with her.
But like I said I had to be on some meds after she was killed. 3 years after that happened I started talking to this beautiful women who I loved. Still do. We would kiss ect I would get hard. I stayed that way by touching her kissing her ect a lot. But then the side affect of the meds, porn MB ect kicked in. I would go soft, I would *** way to fast(I use to stay hard and would be able to keep going) but all of that went away and I would go limp. When I put a condom on I would go limp and that never happened before. I know she had to feel like ****, I know I did. I told her about the meds, but she thought it was because of her (which broke my heart) And after we broke up (which she didn't break up with me. I broke up with her because I thought that this problem would never go away, and I thought I would keep making her feel like she couldn't turn me on. Which she did) So after some time I started looking up porn again and MB a lot, and I mean a lot all of the time.
A few days ago I wouldn't get hard all of the way by watching porn. Is it because of me looking at porn all of the time, and MB all of the time, the meds? Or because its still on my mind? I am scared to start dating again, because I don't want this problem to happen again.
This makes me feel like worthless, it makes me feel like I won't be able to please a women ever again. And that just makes me feel like ****, because I want to date again have a great sex life and have a family. But should I stop thinking about that because this problem will never go away? Or is all of that just in my mind?
I want to be what I use to be like, I would get horny just thinking about a women I liked, thinking about her naked, us having fun.
I just wish that I never found out about porn it has fd me over, and I just want to go back to the way I use to be.
Maybe I should just give up and just realize that this problem will never go away. Maybe I'm just worthless now.
I just want to say sorry I know this post ***** and the way I typed it out, the way I word it. It's just that I'm not comfortable talking about this.
I think that I am having Erectile Dysfunction for a few reasons I think a problem I have is because my spine use to look like an s, and it got moved around to look normal, and also because of some meds.
I have been on some strong depression meds after my Girlfriend who was going to be my wife was killed, and it had that side affect. Also I have been looking at porn when the internet came around and masturbating a lot all of the time like 5 time a day ( I know that's sad) Ok here we go, I hope that I'm not the only one, and I just hate talking about this.
I remember I never use to have ed or have any problems in my life. I remember a one night stand that I had with this college girl, when I started high school I stayed hard for a few hours. And I was able to come a lot.
I would just get turned on by talking with my late GF and had no problems with her.
But like I said I had to be on some meds after she was killed. 3 years after that happened I started talking to this beautiful women who I loved. Still do. We would kiss ect I would get hard. I stayed that way by touching her kissing her ect a lot. But then the side affect of the meds, porn MB ect kicked in. I would go soft, I would *** way to fast(I use to stay hard and would be able to keep going) but all of that went away and I would go limp. When I put a condom on I would go limp and that never happened before. I know she had to feel like ****, I know I did. I told her about the meds, but she thought it was because of her (which broke my heart) And after we broke up (which she didn't break up with me. I broke up with her because I thought that this problem would never go away, and I thought I would keep making her feel like she couldn't turn me on. Which she did) So after some time I started looking up porn again and MB a lot, and I mean a lot all of the time.
A few days ago I wouldn't get hard all of the way by watching porn. Is it because of me looking at porn all of the time, and MB all of the time, the meds? Or because its still on my mind? I am scared to start dating again, because I don't want this problem to happen again.
This makes me feel like worthless, it makes me feel like I won't be able to please a women ever again. And that just makes me feel like ****, because I want to date again have a great sex life and have a family. But should I stop thinking about that because this problem will never go away? Or is all of that just in my mind?
I want to be what I use to be like, I would get horny just thinking about a women I liked, thinking about her naked, us having fun.
I just wish that I never found out about porn it has fd me over, and I just want to go back to the way I use to be.
Maybe I should just give up and just realize that this problem will never go away. Maybe I'm just worthless now.
I just want to say sorry I know this post ***** and the way I typed it out, the way I word it. It's just that I'm not comfortable talking about this.
I use to, but after my girlfriend was killed by her ex, I lost most of my faith, I know it can be stopped but its just hard, I'm just weak I really am.
Slowly taper off the antidepressants. The important thing is to do something instead of letting life happen to you, so take charge.
Start exercising, such as running. Get outside when possible as it lifts the spirits. Lots of sunshine. Take a second job doing some manual labor. It will feel good. Start L-arginine to assist blood flow.
Eat vegetables, not junk food.
I predict you will be fine if you start doing instead of thinking so much.
Start exercising, such as running. Get outside when possible as it lifts the spirits. Lots of sunshine. Take a second job doing some manual labor. It will feel good. Start L-arginine to assist blood flow.
Eat vegetables, not junk food.
I predict you will be fine if you start doing instead of thinking so much.
Dear Steve, I'm following you,but there are more than one issue.
To fully grieve from the death of a loved one,therapy is very useful. Do you belong to a church? The pastors usually offer grievance counceling.
Addictions can be completely stopped. Put another activity in thier place. Do you have an interest in Animals? Use the time spent previously looking at Pornography at an animal shelter. Get some wholesome activities into your life. Rock climbing ? Bike riding. Good exercise can help normal testosterone levels in a man. If it has been some time since your last check-up, see the Doctor. Tell them what's been going on with you. I think in my opinion you will be just fine.. Pamela
To fully grieve from the death of a loved one,therapy is very useful. Do you belong to a church? The pastors usually offer grievance counceling.
Addictions can be completely stopped. Put another activity in thier place. Do you have an interest in Animals? Use the time spent previously looking at Pornography at an animal shelter. Get some wholesome activities into your life. Rock climbing ? Bike riding. Good exercise can help normal testosterone levels in a man. If it has been some time since your last check-up, see the Doctor. Tell them what's been going on with you. I think in my opinion you will be just fine.. Pamela
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