Erectile Disfunction

[jezz1992]

Hello im 16 and when im with my girlfriend i sometimes have erections and sometimes i dont. The first time i was with her i was very anxious and nervous we did not have sexual intercourse but i wasnt erect. Ever since then ive always been anxious and nervous when im with her in case i dont get an erection. the other night i was going to have sex with her for the first time and i was erect then suddenly i wasnt and obviously it didnt end up happening. I was just wondering is it just my anxiety that is contributing to my erectile disfunction?? and i wanted to know how to get rid of my problem?? so i can go back to enjoying being with girls because this is really starting to suck

[TaylorM61]

what up im 17 and i have a lot of erection problems and other issues so i have done a lot of research. when i was 13 my girls always gave me oral sex but never would let me come. one day she wanted to have sex and i was nervous and couldnt keep erect so there for no sex. we tried a second time but i masterbated earlier that day plus me being very nervous i couldnt keep it erect once again and ended up not having sex. now i am older and have a lot of issues due to over masterbation due to depression. as for you your fine i read on many different legit information sites that say erictile dysfunction or not being able to mantain a erection is due to physcological terms. unless that is you have physically damaged your penis or have other issues with it. your problem is like you said is your nervous and that you smoked marijuana that day. i smoked weed one day and tried to have sex with a different girl this is the 3rd try and couldnt mantain a erection but i have come to terms with what i believe the problem was. smoking marijuana 30 mins before i tried to have sex made me nervous because i was still high and well i can get paranoid when im really stoned off some good kush. but even if your not high and your nervous it can cause problems because its effecting you physcologically. if i were you i would google physcological erectile dysfunction cures. but just incase you dont im telling you what i have read says if you try some sort medidation and breathing exercises it can bring down your stress and anxiety. do reasearch on what kinds of exercises you can do to bring your anxiety down or just do it yourself by taking very large breaths when your about to get a ** or about to have sex. obviously i wouldnt smoke any weed before you have sex but it shouldnt be a problem if you smoke a hour or two before cause you will probably not be high anymore. also i have read long term smoking of marijuana can cause impotency and well for me i have been smoking everyday since 7th grade. finally i have decided to quit to hopefully bring back the penis i had. more words of advice is if your girl breaks up with you find a new one and move on unlike me where i sat home smoked weed and jerked off eventually leading to my possible permanent problems. hope this helps you out man just try to relax and have fun.