i am 23 , please help , i masterbated once in 3 days and suddenly one day morning i got erected and after a while i tried it forced and then my penis didnt erect im stressed now and im afraid , im unable to erect my penis , im very afraid now :( , is it psychological or what should i do to solve my problem please help :( ,
i masterbated once in 3 days and suddenly one day morning i got erected and after a while i tried it forced and then my penis didnt erect im stressed now and im afraid , im unable to erect my penis , im very afraid now :( , is it psychological or what should i do to solve my problem please help :(
If porn is involved, then it may be the primary cause.
Many heavy porn users suffer from various stages of erectile dysfunction. Internet porn can become an addiction, and with all addictions the brain changes, or adapts. It does not matter if the addiction is to a substance or whether it is a behavioral addiction, the same brain changes result.
Today's internet porn is nothing at all like our ancestors ever encountered, with the constant novelty and genres of extreme porn. Unlike yesterday's Playboy, Internet porn overstimulates the brain structures responsible for libido, erections, and addiction.
Brain changes include a drop in dopamine receptors in the reward circuitry. Reducing the amount of dopamine receptors decreases your pleasure response to "normal" stimuli. In other words, real-life sexual partners and previous porn won't excite your brain enough to get your penis going. Turning on dopamine receptors is how you get turned on.
As Myron_Long said, the control center for erection is the paraventricular nucleus (in the hypothalamus), yet it gets it's stimulation from parts of the reward circuitry. The reward circuitry runs on dopamine. If the reward circuitry is "numbed" then it's much more difficult to get erections.
Here are two excellent presentations, by a science teacher, on the effects of pornography on the brain, and on erectile dysfunction. They are non-religious, non-judgmental, and science based.
Erectile Dysfunction and Porn:
http://yourbrainonporn.com/erectile-dysfunction-and-porn
Your Brain on Porn - Porn Addiction:
http://yourbrainonporn.com/your-brain-on-porn-series
One must completely abstain from porn, and often masturabation for a period, to achieve results. Healing the brain is not linear
good luck
It's not the end of the world! When do you see your doctor?
anxiety anxiety anxiety killing me couldnt able to control this ..............no erections at all donno hw much time it takes to cure but cant wait with daily anxiety........may be i should kill myself ...but searching for easy methods hanging hurts......
yes i will .....my friend just i tried to hang but it was so painful and hurt my neck and was thiking to be devotional could help me get out of bad and cancerous brain always thinking of some thing sex ....started thinking of my parents, if i couldnt control my anxiety i go to my country leaving my carrier there are good doctors who always give some positive impression ofcourse it costs lot, but they are experienced .....hope i would have not damaged totally by retrying mastrubation for long time. Hoping that i can get back my erection even it takes long time. I have ro settle some financial issues but my problem became major, no problem there is hope of earning if i have good health. Thanks for some good advices Myron-LONG.