as women should always protect the mans ego (especially sexually)… be honest and sincere.
It is probably more awkward not discussing it. He is probably psyching himself out with anticipation and worry over the situation- a discussion will help with this as well.
Approach it like you are in it together… Do not ask if he is not attracted to you (etc)… Tell him you are not disappointed and want to be patient and will be there as long as it takes… Make him comfortable in the moment with no expectations…. and dont make it a big deal
My fiance still appreciates the way I handled a similar situation with him several years ago (problem solved in a matter of days).
Just be honest and casual.. this happens, it is not unusual…
good luck
Thank you for your advice, I will try talking to him about it tonight. He has been extremely busy and stressed with work, so I'm assuming its that. I just hope it's not something more serious with his health. Could it be possible that something is going on with his prostate? At what point should he go to the doctors?
Hi J, Stress is a big sex killer, if you need to anything its get his stress levels down, soft lights, soft music, nice warming food, a nice warm bath together and get him relaxed befor you hit the sheets.
One last thing is meditation,those who practicing meditation also lowered there blood pressure and reported less stress and anger, well worth looking at.
Good Luck