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Suffered from ED entire life - need advice
I am 33 years old and have always had problems with getting an erection. To summarise my symptoms, I would say I have a low libido, it can take me a long time to get an erection, and when I do, it is not hard enough for penetration or I lose it easily.
In the past, doctors had been quick to tell me it was psychological purely based on my age. But, I believe that any psychological impact is a symptom of a physical issue. The reason being is that even when I'm masturbating, I experience the same symptoms. When I do gain an erection by myself, I have to keep stimulating myself to maintain it; not touching for 10-20 seconds can be enough for me to go limp. This is without any pressure prompting performance anxiety, so that's why I've come to the conclusion that I have.
I've booked a telephone appointment with my GP for Tuesday. I want to be referred to a Urologist, but I'm seeing on the NHS website that referrals can take up to 53 weeks! I don't want to have to wait that long to progress things.
I'm curious as to what people think about my assessment, and whether people know what might be going on? Also, is it worth going to a Sexual Health Clinic instead? I've never been to one of those so I don't know if they'll be able to offer the support I need. Last question, is there anything specific I should mention to (or explore with) my GP on Tuesday?
In the past, doctors had been quick to tell me it was psychological purely based on my age. But, I believe that any psychological impact is a symptom of a physical issue. The reason being is that even when I'm masturbating, I experience the same symptoms. When I do gain an erection by myself, I have to keep stimulating myself to maintain it; not touching for 10-20 seconds can be enough for me to go limp. This is without any pressure prompting performance anxiety, so that's why I've come to the conclusion that I have.
I've booked a telephone appointment with my GP for Tuesday. I want to be referred to a Urologist, but I'm seeing on the NHS website that referrals can take up to 53 weeks! I don't want to have to wait that long to progress things.
I'm curious as to what people think about my assessment, and whether people know what might be going on? Also, is it worth going to a Sexual Health Clinic instead? I've never been to one of those so I don't know if they'll be able to offer the support I need. Last question, is there anything specific I should mention to (or explore with) my GP on Tuesday?
Your assessment to seek further medical evaluation is valid. It's important to communicate your symptoms clearly to your GP, emphasizing that they persist even in non-pressured situations like masturbation. This detail is crucial as it suggests the issue might be more physical than psychological. Request a referral to a urologist and express your concern about the long wait time. Ask about alternatives, such as a sexual health clinic, which can often provide specialized care and might have shorter waiting times. Be open about your sexual history, any medications you're taking, and your overall health, as these can impact sexual function. Also, inquire about possible tests or investigations that could be done in the meantime, like hormone levels or vascular health checks. It's important to advocate for your health and ensure your concerns are taken seriously.
I understand that you are 33 years old and experiencing difficulties in achieving and maintaining an erection. Your symptoms include low libido, delayed erections, and challenges in sustaining rigidity both alone and with a partner. Despite initial suggestions that these issues could be psychological due to your age, you believe there might be an underlying physical problem.
Your decision to seek a referral to a urologist is reasonable given the nature of your concerns. If you choose to explore a sexual health clinic, inquire about the services they provide and the possibility of tailored support and advice to meet your needs. Their expertise can complement that of a urologist. I have been in a similar situation but opted for taking Levitra and since then, I haven't experienced these types of problems. Best of luck to you.
Your decision to seek a referral to a urologist is reasonable given the nature of your concerns. If you choose to explore a sexual health clinic, inquire about the services they provide and the possibility of tailored support and advice to meet your needs. Their expertise can complement that of a urologist. I have been in a similar situation but opted for taking Levitra and since then, I haven't experienced these types of problems. Best of luck to you.
Have you tried cialis or viagra?
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They do work well. I think it's valid to give it a try too.
I wonder about Sexual Counseling. I’m thing about doing this because my husband has ED and we have not had any type of sexual…anything in 5 years. I think his was caused by stress. Just do all you can right away.
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That's sage advice. I think counseling is a great idea. Five years is a very long time. How are you handling this as a couple?
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