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having trouble with erections

Im 17 and im having a hard time getting or keeping a erection. if i do get a erection is rubbery and flexible and it becomes very soft at the tip. when my girlfriend grabbed it it didnt get hard or try to get hard and im very nervous about my future if i cant get or keep a erection. also when i dont have a erection and its normal it looks swollen and its hurts after i jack off. i really would like some answers because i really want to kow if i have aproblem or not


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Do you mastrubate watching porn ?
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Stop porno if it is your habit. Mastubation is a natural habit. it does not harm is you are doing it in limit. Do abdominal breathing for 10 minutes twice a day. you can use this breathing to calm your sexual arousal. Stop masturbation for a month with this breathing.During this  time, you will get sexual control and strength.Then you can do masturbation or intercourse. Tips; Masturbate with lubricated hand and do not stop breathing while doing masturbation. Do not do masturbation in prone position.Google abdominal breathing for details.
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Try the Love spray
A friend of mine tested it, and it is working great!
http://igg.me/at/lovespray
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Porn Is the cause of your erectile dysfunction. Its a very addictive habit.
Porn is like a drug to the brain. You have to stop it now. It may be hard to stop but you need to get the will power to stop.
I have been through this issue, I'm still not fully cured but I'm getting way way way better. I stopped watching porn 2 months ago.

What you are suffering from is, erectile dysfunction (Impotence), Premature ejaculation and porn addiction. Basically, when you watch porn it has the same effect on your brain that any drug like cocaine or marijuana would have.
Check Out this link for better understanding and knowledge:-
http://yourbrainonporn.com/erectile-dysfunction-question

Once you completely stop watching porn, you will probably not get any erections at all, which is basically called Erectile Dysfunction.
But don't freak out and go back to porn.
You need to reboot your brain, your brain is used to watching porn and masturbating, its nothing but addiction.

It will take you at least 3 months to cure and come back to normal.

STOP Masturbating completely for sometime.

Its hard but you have to do it for a healthier and more interesting sex life.

Porn doesn't even turn me on anymore, infact I'm scared of watching it. Its boring and useless. Nothing like a real sex session with a beautiful girl.

Erectile dysfunction was depressing for me, premature ejaculation was horrible.

STOP WATCHING PORN FOREVER. STOP MASTURBATING at least for a month.

I used to masturbate a lot before, sometimes 2-3 times a day, sometimes even more. I used masturbate every morning before I got up from bed, and before I slept, sometimes during the day. It was all because of watching too much porn.

And then I faced the same problem as you are facing today. I have suffered.

Finally after so many lifestyle changes, I'm getting better. Now I masturbate only once or twice a week.
The fact that I don't watch porn, I don't even feel the urge to masturbate so much.

Do check out the link I sent you.

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Porn Is the cause of your erectile dysfunction. Its a very addictive habit.
Porn is like a drug to the brain. You have to stop it now. It may be hard to stop but you need to get the will power to stop.
I have been through this issue, I'm still not fully cured but I'm getting way way way better. I stopped watching porn 2 months ago.

What you are suffering from is, erectile dysfunction (Impotence), Premature ejaculation and porn addiction. Basically, when you watch porn it has the same effect on your brain that any drug like cocaine or marijuana would have.
Check Out this link for better understanding and knowledge:-
http://yourbrainonporn.com/erectile-dysfunction-question

Once you completely stop watching porn, you will probably not get any erections at all, which is basically called Erectile Dysfunction.
But don't freak out and go back to porn.
You need to reboot your brain, your brain is used to watching porn and masturbating, its nothing but addiction.

It will take you at least 3 months to cure and come back to normal.

STOP Masturbating completely for sometime.

Its hard but you have to do it for a healthier and more interesting sex life.

Porn doesn't even turn me on anymore, infact I'm scared of watching it. Its boring and useless. Nothing like a real sex session with a beautiful girl.

Erectile dysfunction was depressing for me, premature ejaculation was horrible.

STOP WATCHING PORN FOREVER. STOP MASTURBATING at least for a month.

I used to masturbate a lot before, sometimes 2-3 times a day, sometimes even more. I used masturbate every morning before I got up from bed, and before I slept, sometimes during the day. It was all because of watching too much porn.

And then I faced the same problem as you are facing today. I have suffered.

Finally after so many lifestyle changes, I'm getting better. Now I masturbate only once or twice a week.
The fact that I don't watch porn, I don't even feel the urge to masturbate so much.

Do check out the link I sent you.
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