The Business of Being Born

[scienceteacher79]

I just got done watching "The business of being born". It was a documentary on midwives and the state of maternity care nowadays. If you get a chance to watch it - you won't be sorry! If you have netflix, you can watch it online. Hope everyone is doing well. HUGS!

[alikat1205]

If I had a do over, I would have stayed home the first time.  I went in when my water broke, no contractions yet, so I was on the clock.  Second time, I wanted OR nearby b/c I'd had the first c/s, and I needed it.  Now I'm stuck with surgical birth as my only option, and I HATE IT.  

I'm sorry you went through that, you should have better support than that, but it's easy to pick it all apart after the fact, huh?  But I hear you on the getting pg, staying pg thing!

[scienceteacher79]

I am so sorry that happened. It makes everything a blur. My first doc gave me drugs that weren't explained to me. I kept passing out and coming to in the middle of a contrction screaming because I wasn't able to prepare myself ahead of time. I will NEVER let that happen again. I am not fully sold on the midwife thing, mainly because I want to have an OR standing by - just in case. But I am looking into it... We will see, gotta get pregnant - and stay pregnant first!

[alikat1205]

I know it, I wish so badly I could get a do over on that first birth.  Because of it, I'm now stuck with no choices, will have to have a c/section (which I HATE) for any future births, due to having had a uterine rupture.  It sucks.

[scienceteacher79]

It is really great! Opened my eyes to what happened in my first childs birth that will NEVER happen again! Going to look into midwives more before making any decisions :)

[ALT76]

It's actually in the mail on the way to me now from netflix!  I reserved it a ways back - looking forward to it!