Who's with me on my 2WW?

[plumber43]

Hello my Medhelp sistas,
     who's with me on my 2WW? My betas on 2/28/11.
SSBD to Us All!
Melanie

[LC55]

Another day down. :0) I can't wait to test on the 28th.

I don't know what I will do if it's positive. It's so hard looking at my facebook and seeing all of the loving family photos or friends that are pregnant. I have several friends that are pregnant right now and I will have to attend 2 baby showers next month. In fact, I will be throwing one of the parties. I am sooo happy for my friends because some of them had a harder journey than I have but it's still hard and lonely to see everyone one else with a child.

I know everyone on this board feels the same way I do and can relate. It just feels great to vent sometimes. My family has been supportive but its hard for them to understand because they haven't been through the agony of BFN's every month. I really hope and pray that we will all have a BFP very soon.

Good Luck to all!!!!!  :0)  

[cminamyer]

Not sure yet when I'm going to test, it's SO hard for me to hold off. I'm SOOOO bad at POAS so to cure my craving I might do a OPK...I have a couple left over from this month and they are the digital ones that I have to toss out before next month anyway. I know it's way to early so I just keep telling my self that.

It would be nice if we get our BFP in the next two months because we are moving in late May and hubby will be in school for three months and I'll probably only get to see him on the weekends.  So if we don't get our BFP soon it will be October before we are settled again...

[echoecho9er]

Cmin- I know exactly what you mean about any little twinge or feeling on that side makes you nervous. My right side still bothers me QUITE often where I had the reversal, so I know all about the stressing over every little pinch : ) Fortunately my RE who did it, doesn't seem to have any worry at all about it at this point.  
Really I think anything can cause those weird little twinges so try not to worry too much about it : )  it could just be the difference in hormones causing the tube to feel funny. I know every month since the reversal right around when my period is due, probably from increased blood flow and stuff the side with the tube really starts to bother me. I've chalked it up to just the simple fact of hormones whirling around causing it to swell, or dilate or twinge : ) I'm totally not saying YOUR period is coming, just meaning that even minor hormonal changes in your body probably sometimes causes weird little pains, that's all : )

You never know, 2 years of "not trying" you really could've been not trying around the right time??  I hope for your sake it was just a fluke that it hadn't happened, and that's there's absolutely nothing wrong going on at all : )  Are you planning on holding off before you test, or do you have like a magic DPO that you wanna test at?  I too really hope to see some bfp's this month!  Knowing I'm out of the game, and knowing I have probably another 16 days til I even ovulate, it would make this wait even better if some of you girls give me some good news!          

[cminamyer]

Pennie, I agree with echo! They choose the best embies to implant and they have the best chance of growing where they should. But I'm also not too familiar with IVF but know there are many lady's on this forum who are and should be able to help ease your mind.

Echo, this is the first month I've tryed to keep track of what's going on with my cycle and make sure we did the bd on the right days, but we have not used any form of bc in over two years now so I'm just hoping we have missed the right time these past 24 months....I know very unlikely but I can lie to myself for a couple of months until I go to the Dr., lol.
I did have a sharp pain on my left side today, and that always makes me nervous. I've only got the one tube so anything that feels funny on that side makes my heart skip a beat lol. But even if I were to get pregnant this month implantation would just now be happening or maybe tomorrow and I would have a good couple of weeks before an ectopic would cause that sharp pain, so I just need to tell my self to breath lol.

Still hopeing and praying for everyone! Let's see those BFP!!!

[Pennie1]

Hi there,
Thanks so much for responding to my post. I really appreciate your words and information. Thank you! Good luck to you too :)

[echoecho9er]

I wish I knew more about IVF, but I'm sure there's women who know a lot more than me and will answer too.  I don't think that because the frozen ones didn't grow, the ones transferred wouldn't either. The transferred ones must have a much better chance since they're put inside of your uterus where it has be a better environment for them to thrive. They will have transferred the absolute best 2 embryos that would've had the best chance to implant. Again, I'm sure so many more people are here know a lot about this, but I know that IVF isn't an easy journey so I really really hope you get the best possible outcome!!! Good luck and pls keep us posted!
lc/cmin  I think waiting to test is the best thing, its so much harder for some reason to see those bfn's than wait.  But that's just me : )  Cmin you could be ovulating only every other month, but it would seem that if your two ovaries are healthy then only one or the other would still ovulate no matter what side has a tube. Last month was the second month that my hubby and I tried, used opks, got positives, progesterone blood work, and temping confirmed Ovulation, BD'd at all the right times, and still got bfn's. I don't chalk it up to much other than it just hasn't happened for us yet.  You can do everything right and it still can take some months!  I hope you get your BFP first time around, it would be so nice to hear some great news from some of you ladies this month!!! good luck LC, Pennie, Cmin, Blondebunny, Rmmoye!!!