m/c

[dollyy245]

hello i had some bleedig on 9/4/11 wen to the hospital thay done 4 tests to make sure i was still pregnant all 4 came back positve thay told me there was nothing thay could do until monday morning for a erliey scan on the 10th that night i had a big blood clot about half hour later i dint feel pregnant anymore i new what wa happing i went to the scan and thay told me i had m/c on monday just gone ive never cryed so much in my life it feels apart of me has gone theres a hole in my life missing me and my partner have said we will try again i really want a baby i was just over 2 months nobody should havee to go thru anythink like that i was woundering how long after that can i try again an is i easyer for me to fall pregnant now ??

[Kiwi1nabamome]

Yes Dolly, you are not alone. There are many of us that have this same problem. Unfortunately m/c occur, and there's nothing we can do... But im not sure if i said before, it was a few days of spotting at first for me. I thought nothing of it. I THOUGHT SPOTTING WAS NORMAL!!! I actually came from the doctor about 2 days before, we didnt here the heart beat, but she said it was normal. I was 11 weeks! and finding out i was losing it a week later was very stressful for me and my husband. Now im in this journey, trying to get pregnant. and i have actually started to take action on my situation. I take baby aspirin, with my daily dose of prennatals... Im somewhat tracking my ovulation... and having wonderful stress free, oral sex free, sex! and we're not trying to stress over this matter. Dont stress!!!! if it doesnt happen in the next few months, its probably because of stress. Losing a pregnancy is HARD! Get emotionally right first...My doctor told me to go at it right away, because i havnt had an issue before. But he said also, it will be hard if im not emotionally ready. With the reassurance from my husband i quickly came too the fact that it'll happen. Have your husband be your support system, because it takes two.  It will work its self out. My period came about 5 weeks after...I have no idea if you will concieve easier? They say when you pop one out it makes it easier, but idk about after a miscarriage. I hope everything goes wonderful with you. Please keep my posted!!! Baby dust..and much love.

[dollyy245]

im really sorry im  makes me feel better that im not the only person it makes this feel like 1 big punishment to us i really want a baby i didnt at first but when it came i was so happy and excited i wanted to give it everythink i had i new what pram/clothes/crib everythink i new exacly what i wanted for my baby then all of a sudden it gets taken away just within a click of fingers but now this baby has gone it makes me want 1 i feel like i want to try now it oly hapend on monday ive greived havent stopped crying but as the days are getting on i relize theres nothing i could of done or said to stop this from happing im still bleeding now like its all clearinng out thay told me after i stop bleeding i wont get a period until 6 weeks could i fall in that 6 weeks if i do it regulary and will i concive easyer.
~ ~ baby dust to yous so sorry ~~ ...... x

[xrayz]

I have had 4 miscarriages so I know what you are going thru. I went thru a huge range of emotions including anger, sadness, hopelessness and wanting to give up. I was able to get pregnant again a month after the D&C and 2 months after another D&C. I am pregnant again right now but I am afraid this one will miscarry too. Best of luck to you and sending you healing vibes.

[Kiwi1nabamome]

Hi Dolly, Im sorry for your lost. I have a similar haunting as yours. I had a missed m/c dec20, and it was probably the worse day in my life? It was very emotional for me and my husband. The dnc was sad, it was all very tragic, and feels like you'll never concieve again...I know the feeling, and baby we get through it. I was desperate to concieve again, as i still pretty much am, and everytime i get my period im just like "uuuhhh another month"...i didnt get my period until jan24, which was surprisingly on time. i didnt get it again until march8 and im pretty sure i skipped the feb OV because my cycle switches every feb. march i didnt concieve most likely do to stress, or lack of sex probably, i wasnt trying to have sex, not because of the baby, more because of my situations. SIGH. Anywho...this month im doing Aspirin, and prenatals. Aspirin, because it thickens my uteruses lining, and it circulates more bold to the cervix, i dont think i have problems getting the sperm to the egg, more of a implantation maybe, or just the fact that me and my husband do Osex alot...and he's advanced in age (only 35). Oh and the prenatals, are just my ritual, lolz, and tomorrow im adopting an OV kit, i will be screening my CM via my 2 fingers, to make sure i dont have a CM for sure...and good luck and baby dust for us!!! Have faith i know it hurts, but we get passed this, and having that hurt and pain in your heart and body is nowhere to introduce a seed!!! Make sure you are at peace with yourself first, makes it better to feel sexy about yourself to sproos up the bedroom with your DH! Drs have mixed reviews is what my Dr told me, he told me to go right ahead and try again...tho theirs that risk that since i had a dnc my lining will be poor (hints the baby aspirin). But i say feel safe about it first then go right ahead, Kepp us updated, i wanna be hearing our success stories soon...Baby Dust