Kit: thanks for your kind words. That's funny you should mention where the pain is. I notice the soreness and burning and itching seems minutely better today but I have been watching diet more, plus, like I said, inlaws are here. But I have noticed that sometimes the pain is down where you describe, as well as in the back area, too. Also, what is Lyrica? It sounds familiar and I may talk to my doc about it. Take care.
RX: I admire your strength and courage. Also, feel for you as you are going back to work. I hope that everything goes well at work. You are definately right about this economy. So far, my hubby and I are okay with our jobs. But I teach out of a county facility where they do unemployment filing, job searches, etc., and they are seeing their numbers go way way up... lots of people out of work.
I hope you all are feeling well. I am preparing myself to return to work on Monday!! I don't think I am ready for this! But, with the economy the way it is, I can't afford not to go back now. If I don't return now, I don't think my job will be there. Heck, I am not even sure my same supervisory position will be there on Monday! I might have to work myself back up the ranks again!
I have only one drain in now. The output was too much for my surgeon to start the removal "process" on Tuesday. I think I have him convinced that when the time is right,(hopefully, tomorrow) he will remove it all on the same day instead of backing it out in stages. (I hated that!!) Right now, the removal is scheduled for next Tuesday, BUT, I would then have to go from the Dr.'s office to work, which means I would not have any pain meds for the removal. I called his office yesterday and spoke to his assistant (she is FANTASTIC!) and she is checking with the doctor to see if he will take it out tomorrow so I have the weekend to recover from that "trauma". My abdominal wound is getting very, very small. I still have a home health nurse for the rest of this week. Once I go back to work, I am not eligible for home health care. So, my husband and I will be packing the wound ourselves. I am not afraid of that. We both have backgrounds in the medical field. (Which has made this whole ordeal more mind-numbing, since we REALLY knew what was going on!) We probably could have taken care of the wound when it was a wide-open, but we should we when we had someone else to do it! Plus, it was reassuring to have an RN to talk to everyday!
Speaking of which, my nurse just got here!
Will post again soon!
Suzanne
when you had the set back where was your pain again? I know that when I have a day where its not so bad and then do more or have company the pain finds its way back! I feel for you. I am glad that you have the cononoscopy soon. I don't think that your pain is mild. Any pain is bad and we hate it. I get cranky and wonder why we are tested so much! I know that Rx is really having to go through a lot and I feel for her and praise her ability to do so with such grace! I think you should stay away for roughage still. It could block you if you are still swollen. A doctor told me that we stay swollen for about a year! Rx girl has in drains I know for infection, but the swelling stays with the bowel a long time. Does your pain ever go down the top of the abd where the leg meets the body? I am trying Lyrica because the dr said that I should not have such nerve pain. Maybe you could mention it to your docor. So far not many side effects. I hope it works.
I have you to thank that at 5 month out you still hurt because you are my hero! I just feel so alone with some of my other friends because they just do not get what we are going through.
Later,
Nancy
Hope you are doing well. I was doing much better but have noticed a backwards step the last few days. Not only the itching, but I am experiencing soreness in the surgery area as well as lower. My bms are normal but to think a week ago, I felt almost no pain or soreness!! I also have company in from out of town, mother in law and brother in law, and work is hectic crazy. Not sure if that is contributing. Good news is I am scheduled for follow up colonoscopy on Dec. 2nd. Hopefully, this is all normal. Not sure if my diet is contributing, also, but am staying away from nuts, seeds and roughage still. Or perhaps stress. I am taking pain pills, in evening, and motrin during day. It's not unbearable but seems so mild in comparison to what RX is going through. Take care and thanks for everything. How is your healing going?
So glad to read your post. Isn't it funny how having BMs can make us so happy....lol. I hope that all will be well by the time you go back to work. So sorry about the pain. I did not have to have drains or a bag, so don't really know what it is like. They attached me back right away. However, that has come with pain, as well. However, slooooowly but surely, I am getting back to what ever "normal" will be. On Dec. 2, I go for a colonoscopy as well as an endoscopy ( I have had GERD) for years, to see how everything is in there. I am a little nervous as he is doing a full colonoscopy, not just sigmoid. The good thing is it is being done at the hospital. I have had 2 before, but they were only screenings as my older sister had colon cancer. God bless all.
Hi all!
I hope this post finds you healthy and doing well. I saw my surgeon on Tuesday. He decided it was time for the drains to come out, BUT, he wanted to consult with the colleague that assisted him during my last emergency surgery. My doctor came back in the room and announced that we will be taking the drains out in stages over four appointments!! I could not believe what I was hearing. Drain 1 & drain 2 both share the same insertion site on my abdomen. They were being held together with suture material as well as being attached to me with sutures!! He proceeded to separate everything with a quick snip, and then he began to pull drain 1 out to the surface. He stopped just short of taking the whole thing out. So, I had a 5-6 inch plastic "sump pump" (no better way to explain it! lol) just under the surface of my skin. It was one of the most horrible things. I could actually feel this plastic thing under my skin! I went back on Thursday for him to remove the rest of drain 1 and I could barely walk, apparently the plastic part decided to take a "tour" the bottom of it was neart the groin area! ouch. I now have a long, skinny bruise on the right side of my abdomen. I told him he is going to have to remove drain 2 all in the same day because I will not go through the pain again. I told him that I have not felt that much pain since I was immediately post-op. He said he would see what he could do! I know he is trying to be very careful with me, but this is a little ridiculous! Since the area around the drains was a little red and swollen, he put me back on antibiotics! I am supposed to go back to work in 10 days, and I would like to go back without so many issues! lol He also said that my abdomen was more swollen and distended than normal, so that is another reason for the antibiotics. I was a little upset about that until yesterday...Mother Nature came calling!! I haven't "heard" from her since August. So, that is why I was so bloated. I didn't have the heart to call my doctor to tell him that part. I will share it with him on Tuesday! lol
I hope you all are feeling well and are in good spirits!
I will post again soon!
Suzanne