Hhhmmm... have you tried attracting him by being flirty, dressing sexy, etc? I say this because I am a woman, but I have no sex drive, either, due to medications I must take. I literally don't even think about sex in the sense of actually doing it. My husband (God bless him) understands this, and knows that he has to pretty much 'get in my face' (nicely) about it for me to say okay. Maybe you need to do the same with your husband. People who have no sex drive must be 'over-enticed' to consider having sex. My husband will go to all sorts of lengths to get me there: buying me flowers, cooking me dinner, inviting me to shower with him, being touchy-feely without going overboard, all of the things that he knows I enjoy. Maybe this will work for you. Blessings - Blu
Avocados are called the "passion fruit". Supposed to "turn you on". Also, figs are supposed to raise testosterone naturally. Chocolate is also "sexy". Try feeding him some fruits - sometimes the sweet taste will arouse Maybe something like chocolate covered strawberries or cherries. A Hershey bar?.
thank you to both of you, i would dress sexy, i use to when we first met but i havent done that in a while, im gonna order him Fertilaid for Men , i was told that it increases sex drive as well as helping his sperm, if i order it today ill get it by June 5th and we start are IUI June 12th so hopefully it will get him a little more turned on, when we met we had the best sex , but he was on testosterone then and now he isnt, sometimes i feel like im ugly and hes not attracted to me, but he tells me often that he is attracted to me, and that its the testosterone doing this, its hurting our marriage , i just want to get pregnant so we can do what newly weds are suppose to do, be happy, he loves chocolate i make chocolate covered strawberries alot, it doesnt help, but ill try the Avocados, im gonna buy them today , ill let you know if it helps, thanks ladies Sincerely Renae