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Masturbation and finger in anus

I had a relation with someone infected, i didn´t have sex, she did me oral sex with a condoom, but before she masturbated herself on the bed, after that she start to do me the oral and inserted the finger that she was masturbating on my anus and stayed there .
the people in the forum say that i cant get infected this way but i´m now starting lots of symptoms Im in my 3th to 4th week.
My troat is all messed up - i´m taking nimesulide and it´s the same
I so, but so tired, today i sleep almost 15hours, my muscles are hurting.
I cant eat a thing, i down´t have any ungry or apetite.
What´s happening to me :( this is all symptoms of ARS
I´m really, really scared and i can only do the test in 2 months.
Some of this things could be duo to anxiety but my troat no, and it´s really bad.

What are your opinion about all this?
My best regards
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Just because he has an MD after his name doesn't mean that he is competent in the area of HIV transmission. You never had a risk and only need testing for the psychological assurance it will provide.
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Hi there everyone!
Just received my STD tests today....
All came negative as concern to stds... the only thing that misses now is the HIV test that i can only do in 2 months :(
I talked to the doctor today and he says that i´m at risk and that i was in a risk situation.
Why does he says this to me? Lots of people say that i had a no risk situation but he keeps saying that i was at risk

My best regards to everyone
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Thanks for your kind words my friend!
I just hope and pray to GOD that everything will be fine, but the symptoms are killing me and i´m not so sure that i will be fine :(
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Protected oral sex has a zero risk of transmission so you're totally fine there.
As to the finger in the anus, this is extremely unlikely, HIV does not survive outside of the body, it is extremely fragile, so transmission this way has a zero risk.
The symptoms you are experiencing are probably just a common viral infection like pharyngitis or a flu-like illness and your anxiety is certainly not helping things.

You should get tested in two months time purely for peace of mind but you'll be fine.

Kind regards.
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