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Anal stimulation HIV risk

Dear Medhelp,

In june 2010 did I visited a local Massage Parlour.

When I was with the lady downstairs she asked me if I would like to have anal stimulation besides a handjob as well.
She took a sex toy, a small dildo, start using this on my anus.

Now I am terribly worried because this dildo was not covered with a condom. Also I didn't pay attention if the dildo was clean, it went very fast.
No I am greatly surprised to read that the sharing of sex toys is a HIGH risk
to get HIV. I do understand that immediate sharing with a person is risky.

But in this case I used a dildo that a person might several minutes ago also used on his anus.

Did I had a risk for HIV with this dildo which was unclean?

Please, inform me.

Thanks
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No risk of contracting HIV.
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Dear Teak,

thanks for your answers.

I will put the matter aside and realize that even remains on the dildo would not be able to infect me with HIV. Or said in short sex toys do not transmit HIV when they are not immediately used on two sex partners simultaneously.
A time interval of non usage of several minutes of the particular dildo in question does eliminate any risk for contracting HIV by using that dildo for anal stimulation.

Thanks again!
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Dear Teak,

ok, thanks.

I am really sorry to bother you again but the remains from a previous customer on the non clean dildo do not create a risk for HIV?


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They've been working on a cure since HIV was discovered and to date there is still not a cure.
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Dear Teak,

many thanks for your response.

I also would like to say that I have great admiration for your work, in supporting and helping people across the world by the help of this platform. So did I first came across medhelp several years ago.

It is not that I take your answer in question but does it also consider any possible stuff that has been left behind from the previous customer, assuming it wasn't clean etc.

Now I am reading more about HIV do i notice there are several scientist(s) (team(S)) across the world busy finding a cure for HIV. Is there any professional organisation that binds all these scientists, knowledge and promotes information sharing regarding The possible solution to focus on. This because I think the research process must be speed up and get a new impulse. I suggest a location on the world where several scientists can come and work and do research together would be smarter (if this already not exists).
Also in terms of fundraising it will enable people to donate internationally to this one and only research center specialised in HIV research.

Thanks
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You never had an exposure.
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Dear Argentineguy,

thanks for your rapid response.

I still think she just grabbed the dildo and used it on me. Lets suppose there is really something from the previous customer on it, some blood etc. Will this for sure be dead?
It isn't the worse place to have a massage, but everyone forgets something.
I am terrified about it.

Please give me a bit more detailed response
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hiv is deabled with minutes air exposure you describe

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1494472 tn?1299610437
if that was in a massage parlour ,, then dildo was cleaned by sure
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