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Bareback mistake

Hi,

Last week I went to a gay sauna and entered a glory hole.  I put my **** through the hole and started getting oral.  I noticed the guy had a butt plug in his *** through the hole.  Without realising the guy must have turned around and put my **** in his *** - no protection.  As he was using a butt plug his *** was quite open - but I noticed it felt different.  As soon as I realised I withdrew and wiped off my ****.  I do not know the HIV status of the guy.

Four days later I have an ache in my groin area and am concerned that I have contacted HIV - one of the Symptoms is swelling in the glands.

Is it too soon after the exposure to have any symptoms? this is the only one I have.

thanks

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Geesh, You think butt plugs are hollow or something? Don't worry about him worry about yourself. Get tested at the proper time.
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I was also wondering, if he was using a butt plug and his *** was open (which it was)  could the HIV virus still live when it was exposed to air?
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Your right you didn't test at the correct time. Test at 6-8 weeks and then get a conclusive result at 3 months.
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Hi Guys

I have been for a test - the day after the incident -  and it was negative.  That is too early to tell and as it's less than a week, I doubt another test will show anything up.
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if you go to the expert forum you will read that most people infected will develop symptoms 2-4 weeks after infection i think yours are too early to be ARS related, but if you really believe that he did this to you then you should take Teak's advice and go test.  
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Your symptoms came on to quick to be related to ARS. You had unprotected sex so testing is needed.
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Alegin,
Wait 3 months, go get tested & hope for the best...
There is a strong possibility that this guy is hiv positive if he actually did this Alegin, he's done it with countless, faceless others. Please reconsider frequenting these type of places unprotected, it's not worth it man.
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Much too soon...Whatever your symptoms are, it's not from HIV.

If you truly believe he put your **** in his butt through a glory hole, get tested.
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