Okay I Had sex with a partner on march 5 2011 nd i noticed when she got off of me that the condom had busted leaving my penis exposed n now 10 months later I break out with a Scaly Rash on my legs n arms, I Had Other Symptoms but not all at one time, But I did notice I have lost weight but not sure how much, n I had unprotected sex with my girlfriend n 21 days later she was vomitting, had a fever, is all of this signs of HIV?