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Bleeding after fingering

I am a gay male, 25, never engaged in anal sex. I had a guy finger me somewhat aggressively and I noticed blood on my sheets after.

He definitely did not penetrate me but the blood made me nervous.

Am I at risk? Also when he ejaculated his semen got on a relatively fresh cut on my hand.
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Yes they do because 99.9% of people fear HIV.This is fear making you think in an irrational way.You would know the difference between a finger and a penis.
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* Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusively negative result or no-risk situation, will be subject to action by MedHelp. Conclusively negative results or a no-risk situation will be based upon the criteria established by MedHelp’s doctors. Action will be taken as follows:
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do most people here have OCD like me and not actual real risks?!
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what does that mean? i just want certainty!
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If it happened you wouldn't be here questioning it.

This forum has accessed your situation as NO RISK. There is nothing more that we can do for you. It's up to you whether you want to believe us or not- we're not here to argue.
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well i have never had anal sex so i dont know lizzie!!!!!! what if it switched to his penis f*cking my anus and i didn't know it?!?!?!
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186166 tn?1385259382
oh good lord...are you going to tell us that you don't know the difference between getting fingered and having anal sex?

really?
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??
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??
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one more question- we were talking dirty and while he was fingering me i kept saying "**** me," as if he were. what if he took this to mean his penis and he suddenly penetrated me with his penis and i just didn't know??? it was dark in the room!
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No it's not--you never had a risk--if you can't accept this fact you may require therapy.
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You really think it's not HIV related?
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Rules of this forum are not to excessivly post, which you are doing. You have asked a question and we have answered. It's time to move along and seek a therapist for your anxiety issues.
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I am worried because I keep getting sick! I had strep throat last week, now I have a cold again!

What if it accidentally went in?
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Yes, it's anxiety that is introducing "what if" thoughts into your mind.
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Is this my OCD getting me??
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Move on.
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I'm
Worried since it was dark. Lights were out and so what if he penetrated me and lied to me when I asked if he had only fingered me?  I'm going crazy with worry but I've never bled before! That's why I'm worried since maybe he penetrated me and I couldn't tell or see!
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186166 tn?1385259382
kindly move along...you never had a risk
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??
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does a penis feel different from a finger? he put two fingers in me at one point, maybe that's why I bled??

i am still worried since i had never bled before
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Thats correct
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Seriously? So for me, if I am a gay male who doesn't use drugs, the ONLY WAY SEXUALLY for me to get HIV is to have bareback anal sex? Which I would NEVER do?
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