I have have unsafe sex a year and 3 months ago. It was anal sex and I was not long in her, just for 5 mintues. I was worried, so I decided to finish it with orally. I did not have any cut neither her. She told me that she was HIV negative, not sure. After 12-13 weeks I had joint ache (2-3 days) then had some upper abdomianl (lower the chest) discomfort. I did physical test (blood work), everything was fine. My doctor told me that the joit ache could be the clariton I was taking for the allergy. Now, I am very +++ scared can't think of any thing but that I am positive for HIV. I am scared to test. Pls, let me know if this sounds like HIV?