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First ever unprotected homo sex with a stranger
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I am really worried about the biggest mistake I had done in my life. I will give detail information about this. Please help me as am worried a lot and not feeling like eating/drinking/sleeping.
I am male and 29 yrs old. Almost 24 hrs back i.e 13-Nov-2011 20:30 (now time is 14-Nov-2011 19:45), I met a stranger who is around 45 years inside a bus stand. I went inside the Toilets for urine and he saw me there. He started chatting with me and started touching my penis. Later he asked me to come inside the bathroom. I had followed him. I am educated guy but I had gone out of my mind yesterday with the pleasure I was getting. We went inside the bathroom and he sucked my penis for around 20 sec. Later he asked me to turn back and kept his Penis inside my anal and did sex for around 1 min. After that he asked me to insert my penis inside his anal. I did that and had sex for around 2 min. The entire time we had spent inside the bathroom would be less than 10 min. But I left my semen inside his anal. I am not sure whether he also left his semen inside my anal. We had this intercourse without condoms.
I then realized what a mistake I had done. Within 5 min, I washed my penis and anal part with water. I am so much afraid because the guy started telling me after our sex that he regularly exploits men and have homo sex. This is the first time ever I had unprotected sexual intercourse and with a male too this is the first time ever I had sex. The most unfortunate thing and pity is I am married and I have a kid who was born 3 months back. I never had any sexual relations either with guys or girls except my wife till yesterday. I left the guy later and got into my bus. It took me 12 hrs to reach my destination and I immediately went inside the bathroom and washed my penis and anal area with diluted anti bacterial liquid water. I then rushed inside the Hospital and told everything to the doctor. I gave my blood for all the tests he suggested. I will get the results in 3 days. I am so worried and I wish I wont be affected because I would never want to get myself into this situation again.
Please tell me the answers for following questions and anything which I am missing here and I should know.
1) What are the chances of me getting the virus on my very first unprotected intercourse with a stranger assuming he has HIV+.
2) When can I rest assure that I am not infected. Because Doctor says all these tests are preliminary and I should go for the tests again after 3 months and 6 months.
3) He suggested me some test to go after 4 days and asked me to give my blood samples. I don't remember the name of that test. He tells me that If I go for that test and if it is Negative, there is 99.9% chance that I wont be effected.
4) He used his mouth on my penis. So his saliva touched my penis. He had sex with me and I too had sex with him in anal. Will HIV transmits even with 1 min or 2 min sex?
I am really worried about the biggest mistake I had done in my life. I will give detail information about this. Please help me as am worried a lot and not feeling like eating/drinking/sleeping.
I am male and 29 yrs old. Almost 24 hrs back i.e 13-Nov-2011 20:30 (now time is 14-Nov-2011 19:45), I met a stranger who is around 45 years inside a bus stand. I went inside the Toilets for urine and he saw me there. He started chatting with me and started touching my penis. Later he asked me to come inside the bathroom. I had followed him. I am educated guy but I had gone out of my mind yesterday with the pleasure I was getting. We went inside the bathroom and he sucked my penis for around 20 sec. Later he asked me to turn back and kept his Penis inside my anal and did sex for around 1 min. After that he asked me to insert my penis inside his anal. I did that and had sex for around 2 min. The entire time we had spent inside the bathroom would be less than 10 min. But I left my semen inside his anal. I am not sure whether he also left his semen inside my anal. We had this intercourse without condoms.
I then realized what a mistake I had done. Within 5 min, I washed my penis and anal part with water. I am so much afraid because the guy started telling me after our sex that he regularly exploits men and have homo sex. This is the first time ever I had unprotected sexual intercourse and with a male too this is the first time ever I had sex. The most unfortunate thing and pity is I am married and I have a kid who was born 3 months back. I never had any sexual relations either with guys or girls except my wife till yesterday. I left the guy later and got into my bus. It took me 12 hrs to reach my destination and I immediately went inside the bathroom and washed my penis and anal area with diluted anti bacterial liquid water. I then rushed inside the Hospital and told everything to the doctor. I gave my blood for all the tests he suggested. I will get the results in 3 days. I am so worried and I wish I wont be affected because I would never want to get myself into this situation again.
Please tell me the answers for following questions and anything which I am missing here and I should know.
1) What are the chances of me getting the virus on my very first unprotected intercourse with a stranger assuming he has HIV+.
2) When can I rest assure that I am not infected. Because Doctor says all these tests are preliminary and I should go for the tests again after 3 months and 6 months.
3) He suggested me some test to go after 4 days and asked me to give my blood samples. I don't remember the name of that test. He tells me that If I go for that test and if it is Negative, there is 99.9% chance that I wont be effected.
4) He used his mouth on my penis. So his saliva touched my penis. He had sex with me and I too had sex with him in anal. Will HIV transmits even with 1 min or 2 min sex?
I am sorry to use the word clean. My intention to mention is I hope my health is clean.
Check the side effects of ARV's. Taking them unecessarly could cause major health concerns, that is the reason for the guidelines. It's not like taking an asprin.
But Teak, now we don't know the status of that man... what if he was HIV+. The guidelines will not help in such situations.
Man just wake up and leave all the statistics and probabilities aside.
Even if I told you the percentage of anal homo sex is 01%, you might be the person who is experiencing this percentage and in this case your chances are 100% for picking up the HIV.
Sorry for my harsh words, But you have a chance now to save yourself by doing the PEP (post-exposure prophylaxis) and make sure to head right now to the hospital.
Even if I told you the percentage of anal homo sex is 01%, you might be the person who is experiencing this percentage and in this case your chances are 100% for picking up the HIV.
Sorry for my harsh words, But you have a chance now to save yourself by doing the PEP (post-exposure prophylaxis) and make sure to head right now to the hospital.
If he had transmission, the risk of transmission in the type of circumstances that you mention is 1 in 100 exposures.However I would hypthesise that your risk is higher (IF he had HIV) because you were both insertive and receptive.
Please tell me the chances of getting infected with first ever unprotected homo sex. If you can tell me the probability, it would be great as the incident happened just 36 hrs back, I am really worried of spending another 3 months with mental tensions. I hope I will still stay clean after 3 months, leaving everything on God. I hope he will forgive me for my first ever mistake.
1- DO NOT touch your wife till you get three months exclusive negative results.
2- It would be wise to consider taking PEP (post-exposure prophylaxis) treatment as soon as possible.
Read more about it on (http://www.gmfa.org.uk/sex/hivandaids/pep).
Act quickly as soon as you can .
2- It would be wise to consider taking PEP (post-exposure prophylaxis) treatment as soon as possible.
Read more about it on (http://www.gmfa.org.uk/sex/hivandaids/pep).
Act quickly as soon as you can .
You should also not even consider having unprotected sex with your wife until you have recieved a negative test at 3 months.
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