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HIV exposed.

I had en encounter this four days ago where I had sucked on a pierced nipple. Afterwards I tasted blood in my mouth. The next day I performed oral sex on him. He had a lot of precum, but came outside my mouth. There was no other sex. In both cases I rinsed my mouth with mouthwash. I tend to have irritated gums. They bleed easily when something gets caught in them or I flos. Tonight he told me he just found out two days ago he was HIV positive. What is the most likely level of risk I face? I'm freaking out. Its now 24 hours past the PEP period and three months before I can be tested.
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Oh. I do believe you. Logically I really do. I have a panic disorder and tend to hyper focus on body sensations that often lead to a panic attack. It's just a struggle between the body and the mind. I already feel like it's not a big deal, but my anxiety keeps nagging. I really appreciate the knowledge.
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6 month testing time frame has not been in place for many years. If you can't believe us now, then believe the 3 month test.
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I hope so. I'm anxious by nature, so it will be a long three months with a 6 month follow up before the paranoia go away. But it sure is a wake up call. Few things have terrified me more than that call. I think it's back to the cautious nature I had in the 80's when hiv was a death sentence. Its sad that something as fun and beautiful as sex has to be so fearful.

Thank you for your info.
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Saliva has proteins and enzymes that deactivate the virus and break it down. Rendering it unable to infect.
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Logically I get that. Its just that I know that by gums bleed to some minor degree probably every time I eat or brush my teeth. I feel like I have all these open cuts in my mouth. That still isn't enough to contract it? It terrifying to think of. I went completely numb and cold when he told me. Not sleeping. I'll need a test in three months just to ease the anxiety.
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You do not even qualify for a test, PEP is out of question. You were never exposed to any risk based on the situation you described. Oral sex alone is not a reason for HIV transmission
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