Aa
Aa
A
A
A
Close
Avatar universal

am i at risk?

Hi doctors, i am a bisexual and already worried if im infected of hiv. Here's my story.

Sept 20, 2014 - had sex with a male sex worker, i oral him then he top me with a condom. Not sure if he ejaculates but he said he's clean.

Oct 24 - had sex with another male sex worker. He oral my penis and ***. Then he top me with condom. No ejaculation, also its difficult for him to erect that time.

Nov 15 - had sex with someone i just known from the phone. I oral him then he top me. He ejaculates inside me with condom. But i started to get unease bec im worried his semen leaked out from the condom and he might have any std. But he said he's safe and he tested hiv neg 5 months ago. But I don't want to believe it.

Here's the symptoms i encountered
1. 4th week  of nov - i had 3 mouth ulcers, one looks white that last for a week then the other 2 is quite small and looks black  that lasts for 3 days. All are not painfull. This comes with a sorethroat that lasted for 3 days.
I started to freak out and already thought of infected of hiv.
2. Dec 1st week. - i had a mouth ulcer inside of my cheek again that lasted for 3 days and a sorethroat for a day only. Then I started to feel itchy all over my body for 2 days. After that i have a rashes on my right leg, it's a small red bumps like blisters, i asked the doctor and he told me just an eczema and gave me a gentalene. It gone after a week. But It freaks me more so i keep on reading about hiv sysmptoms.

3. Dec 2nd week - i always check my neck if there is something wrong then i felt pain on my left jaw where the lypm nodes are but no swelling. I asked the doctor and didnt find any swelling but he still give me an Amocla antibiotics.

No more aching on the left jaw but I started to feel some pain on my muscles, joints and maybe bones. Its a shooting pain that last for only a few minutes then move to another part of the body. Sometimes have sometimes no. I felt it on my toe, calf, feet, thigh, knees, fingers, arm, elbow. There's also muscle twitching.

4. Dec 3rd week - another ulcer inside my upper lip but non itchy, lasted for only 5 days.

5. Dec 4th week - i feel itchy on my tounge, then after 2 days an ulcer came out that lasted for 4 days.

January 2015 - Now i only feel the aches on my muscle, joint and bones. Still have muscle twitching. Then now the rashes seems coming back again. Please help me ***** this if im really infected before i go tested. Im really afraid of it because i dont want to lose my job and my life thay i have now. By the way i never had fever until this time.
8 Responses
Sort by: Helpful Oldest Newest
Avatar universal
My test came negative. Wow feels so good now.
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Do you think i still need to take a test?
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
And you said you used a condom, condoms protected you from HIV and STD's.
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
But i had anal sex then im the receptive.
then what are the meaning of the symptoms i have?
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Because oral sex is not a risk due to factors such mas other mouth bacteria, saliva and such.
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Hi vance, may i know why i don't have a risk on that situation? Thanks
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
May i know why?
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
You had no HIV risk.
Helpful - 0
Have an Answer?

You are reading content posted in the HIV Prevention Community

Top HIV Answerers
366749 tn?1544695265
Karachi, Pakistan
370181 tn?1595629445
Arlington, WA
Learn About Top Answerers
Didn't find the answer you were looking for?
Ask a question
Popular Resources
Condoms are the most effective way to prevent HIV and STDs.
PrEP is used by people with high risk to prevent HIV infection.
Can I get HIV from surfaces, like toilet seats?
Can you get HIV from casual contact, like hugging?
Frequency of HIV testing depends on your risk.
Post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) may help prevent HIV infection.