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HIV from massage lotion or oil if I release only in 5 seconds

I went to massage centers only 6 times in my life. I had hand job with lotion and oil at different visits. After 1 week of last visit, I had one pimple on my penis. It started becoming watery, I started to get rash on my belly and inner thighs. Later the rash started on buttocks and bellow knees also but it was severe on belly and inner thighs. I went to see a doctor to a doctor and he gave me azithromicin, one anti alergy and two creams. One is panderm for penis other gave reaction on thighs and belly. Wearing pant became difficult with rash but i had to go to office so I used to wear them. After this medication penis pimple went away but two new pimples came and those also near the tip. The used to become small after few hours of applying cream and became big again. Next time General physician gave me 10 days doxylcycline two tablets daily, anti alergy and one steroid but pimples and rash is not gone away. Finally pimple on penis became small after 20 days I think and now today it is becoming bigger again. The rash became better but didn't go probably 50% than before. The GP recommended me to a dermatologist 5days ago. He said it is scabies, he recommended the pertherm cream and soap and I used it yesterday and  rash is somehow better. Can it be HIV? I am so worried that it could be seroconversion that could have happened and things would have gotten worse and became better. I am panicing and I live abroad alone. I have never done intercourse or oral sex, I promise. the massage girl used lotoon once, she touched my anus few times, at one massage the girl gave me body to body massage and when I came her belly was on my penis. I come in less than 7 or 10 seconds can there be HIV on bottle lotion or oil and contact with my penis can give me HIV? They use bottles of oil or lotion which can have other people's semen or bodily fluids. I am very worried if it is HIV or not. I am scaring to death. i am crying daily and going in depression. One other thing. i had fever for few days. I checked after about five days, it was 99.5 Fahrenheit for 5 days then 100 Fahrenheit for 2 or 3 days. Then again 99.5 for 2 days and then it became better. Today it is about 34 days since last time I went to massage center. I am very worried and don't know what to do. What is my risk of HIV? Things that I told you, can they expose me to HIV?
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20620809 tn?1504362969
So, to make sure you understand how people get HIV, it is very simple.  To get HIV you have to have unprotected vaginal or anal sex or share IV drug needles.  You did not risk HIV.  Air inactivates the virus as does saliva.  I actually think someone said this to you earlier and you are still asking.  No matter how many times you ask, the answer will not change--  no risk.
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I was only worried in how many seconds air inactivated the virus, but I understand little now. I feel I am even getting depression. I will be better now, hopefully.

Thank you so much for responding.
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That's not HIV. Hand jobs will literally NEVER result in HIV. Sounds like you had an allergic reaction to the lotion/oil. You should go see a dermatologist to figure out what kind of treatment is needed for the rash.
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About 2 weeks after the last massage, I went to see a doctor and he gave me
azithromicin, one anti alergy and panderm for penis and another steroid lotion for rest of body (this gave reaction).
After one week of this med,, wearing pant became difficult because of rash .  Pimple on penis went away but two new pimples appeared near the tip. These two used to become small after few hours of applying panderm and became big again in hours.

Next time General physician gave me 10 days doxylcycline two tablets daily, anti alergy and one steroid but pimples and rash has not gone away. Finally pimple on penis became small after 20 days I think and now today it is becoming bigger again. The rash became better but didn't go completely, probably 50% than before.
The GP recommended me to a dermatologist 5days ago. He said it is scabies, he recommended the pertherm cream and soap and I used it yesterday and  rash is somehow better.

My worry is the last two pimples are  becoming one and becoming bigger again
That has nothing to do with HIV. This is not an HIV problem. Go to the dermatologist.
Thank you for telling. Just one last thing I want to ask.

1- The massage girl used lotion once And my penis was covered completely when I came.
2- She touched my anus few times
3- at one massage the girl's belly was on my penis when I came.

Can any of above cause HIV?

I came in less than 7 or 10 seconds, can the virus sustain for 5 seconds if it was in lotion bottle? I am worried because they use same bottles which can have other people's semen or bodily fluids, it takes few seconds for virus to become dead, how many seconds? Less than 10?  I came in 5 seconds? Can I be infected?

I know I am panicing.
No.
You mean no risk?
Please confirm you meant that "there is No risk of infection".
I am bothering you last time and I am very very thankful for taking out time to read all my comments.
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It would really help if you use paragraph in your words,as it would be easier to read,
anyway if your concern is only about handjob,its never a risk for hiv.

The only risk for hiv are having unprotected sex,sharing needles drug equipment with some one known positive for hiv.
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Sorry, I wanted to edit but I couldn't. Can any of following be a risk?

1- The massage girl used lotion  once And my penis was covered completely when I came.
2- She touched my anus few times
3- at one massage the girl's belly was on my penis when I came.

I came in less than 7 or 10 seconds, can the virus sustain for 5 seconds if it was in lotion bottle? I am worried because they use same bottles which can have other people's semen or bodily fluids, it takes few seconds for virus to become dead, how many seconds? Less than 10?  I came in 5 seconds? Can I be infected?

I know I am panicing. It is really worrying me.
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I am extremely worried. Please answer.
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I am extremely worried. Please answer.
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