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HIV through receptive oral sex (please help anyone)

Hello , I'm a 16 year old male living in Georgia . Let me get right to it . About 3 months ago I had met up with girl at a party , one thing led to another and before I know it we were things were getting heated inside my car . I didn't want to have sex since I had not brought a condom so she insisted on just giving me a handjob . Everything was going fine until I felt her using her mouth . I didn't know what to do until about 10 seconds on giving me oral I asked her to stop since I did know all the STD's I could get . After that I never saw her again . About 8 weeks later I had a flu , I thought nothing of it since it was flu season , but after the flu lasted about 8 days I was worried . At the same time I developed a very itchy rash on my legs , and 4 pimple like bumps on my forearm . I let these symptoms resolve themselves and in about 2 weeks everything was fine . But yesterday I noticed some white removable painless blemishes on the inside of my mouth , I have braces and i smoke on an almost daily basis so I though they were just ulcers . I also noticed their was plaque like substance on my tongue that gets whiter in the back and also needed to constantly swallow my saliva (back of mouth feels somewhat dry). I brushed my tongue and got most of off . I'm just very scared I might of contracted the HIV virus since I show 3 or more symptoms . Is it likely I have it ?
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Again thank you for your encouraging words , but if you wouldn't mind me asking , I looked through your profile and stumbled upon one of your questions and your almost in the same position as me . I just wanna know , your white tongue and ulcer , has that been alright ? My mouth is very dry especially in the morning and my tongue is very white at the time . And also I just scraped my ulcer off my mouth and it came right off , same for you ?
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Le me get right to it-You never had a risk,you don,t require any hiv testing and your symptoms are not ARS symptoms.All the best.
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That's what I've been trying to get throughout to myself but it seems every time I start to believe myself a new symptom comes up and now I don't know what to think . I understand that my anxiety may play a roll in this but I'm just honestly terrified and don't know what to do . i cant even grasp thought of having an HIV+ positive test come back to me and knowing how I haven't even really lived my life . Thank y'all for your encouraging words
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Pretty boy, you're not going to get HIV through a blow job, never has happened, will never happen. Oral is no risk. Your symptoms are related to anxiety than any thing else. Move on.
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Thank you for your response but I have heard that open ulcers or cuts in the HIV + positive person could transmit the virus through the tip of the penis . Dosent the present a problem ?
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P.S you can only catch something the other person has and more than likely the female had no std's.
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This was not a risk for HIV. However, you could have easily picked up other std's. Genital herpes is one. Practice safe sex from now on and only engage in unprotected sex when both partners are screened for all std's and are in a relationship. You most likely are std free.
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