someone help me plz! do I have hiv

[helpmeplz9]

Ok it was december 1 2008 and me and my partner had anal sex unprotected. He was my first and only. He tried a couple of times before then to have anal intercourse but it wouldn't fit in the pain was to unbareable. On december 1 it finally worked. We had intercourse, I did him and he did me for a little. About four weeks later fell asleep on the couch. And for some strange reason I  woke up feeling like something was wrong. So I looked up hiv symptoms and I discovered I could be showing them.I discovered as more I read about this stuff the more I got sicker. I was so scared I told my mom. She looked at me and said I don't think nothing is wrong because im not showing strong symptoms like rashes and lesions. But I did infact have  Stomach  aches, tiredness and maybe slight fever, tonsils swollen with white stuff on them loss of appetite, body aches, loss weight too. At 33 days after intercourse I went to the clinic and tested negative for hiv. My partner went too and tested negative a week after me. I been having anxiety attacks thinking well maybe he did something to make the test negative. He tells me he doesnt have anything but I just don't believe him idk why. Today is january 19, and my tonsils are still swollen with white **** on them and looks nasty. Do you think I have hiv?

[bibster1]

Hi stupid question can you hiv if you have m2m and your both negative?

[JeanClaude]

Test at 6 weeks and if negative, confirm at 3 months. When engaging in anal sex, a condom and lube should ALWAYS be used. If he was the only one you've been with , are you sure of his status ? If you are, you are NEGATIVE.

-JC-