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Hiv & saliva

Hi
I am really scared!
3 weeks ago i met one of my co-workers and she kiss my lips. i close my mouth and didn't let her to kiss inside my mouth (french kiss)just on my lips but she kisses wetly. I washed my lips after that.
4days ago, i saw two rash on my fingers(back of hands) one in my right hand and two rash in my left hand (one rash at the bottom of my finger and one rash on my elbow (they are not close to each other_. the night before i slept in a public place and there were some insects, so i thought they are insect's bites. yesterday, i saw one of my friend who has cold and today i feel have slight cold and i feel fatigue.
the night after she kissed my lips, in felt blood in my mouth a little. I scared that the virus in her saliva passed through my closed lips and the next day that i have bleeding infected me.
3 rash on my hands (one in right hand and two in my left hand) and feeling fatigue and slight cold(4days after rash) are coincidence or HIV? :-(
is this situation possible that the virus passed through my lips and wait in my mouth until next day and then goes to my body through a little sore?
I also noticed a closed sore at the back of my lips. i am sure that there was not bleeding at that time. is it possible the virus infect me through close sore? (i checked that sore and there was not bleeding.
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186166 tn?1385259382
of course i answered your question...my words were, "you never had an exposure"
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1364665 tn?1291607092
virus can get into ones wound if you had bleeding mouth as in really BLEEDING that requires medical attention. and believe me you wouldn't kiss someone if you see the mouth is really really BLEEDING that blood is coming and pouring out.
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thanks for your answer but you didn't mentioned virus can pass through dry wound or not? (not bleeding for 2 or 3 days)
(if it could pass through my lips because my mouth was close)
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186166 tn?1385259382
you NEVER had an exposure.

whatever "symptoms" you are experiencing are NOT hiv related.
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I really scared :((
my flue-like symptom continue :(
i have sore throat and white tongue
I think i got HIV just by kissing :(
My lips became bloody 3,4 days before kissing and became bloody 2days after kissing. maybe her saliva pass through little wound. Does virus can pass through dry blood on a wound?
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Thanks both of you. in fact I experienced  Flu-like symptoms which scared me. fatigue, sore bone and maybe fever. and it scared me.
I also touch her vagina but with 3layer of Kleenex. she asked me to clean her vagina first then masturbate for her. I cleaned her vagina with 3layer of Kleenex. i scared to touch her vagina directly so I did short masturbate with those tissue  for short time (about 30s maybe less) i also have an old cut on my hand which seems completely close wound. and there was not bleeding at that time. and i wash my hand just after this.
i know the risk is very low but the symptoms scared me
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Beleive royalee 209 it is true what he has posted

NO Risk
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thanks for your answer. I hope.
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1153110 tn?1311048221
HIV is not passable through kisses.  Even if there's blood, you have to have a cut in your mouth for the blood to pass through.  Even if there was blood from her to you, the blood would have to go through your saliva, which has natural anti-virals and enzymes to break down whatever was in the blood.  

Your symptoms are from anxiety.  You were never at risk.
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