both unprotected sex...one male to male...one male to female.
if you had PROTECTED sex...you did NOT have a risk for contracting hiv.
you dont know if the condom was latex because she provided it? believe you me...these women want to protect THEMSELVES FROM YOU...they use the correct condoms.
you dont know if it was damaged or had any holes in it? if it was damaged...you would have known. condom failure is catastrophic...there's no little holes lurking around.
kindly move on...you do NOT have a hiv concern.
Thank you Lizzie, Do you know if either of them said they had been using condoms? I'm just scared because 5 days after protected sex I came down with a mild fever for one day, then I started having a lot of caughing sneezing and some green mucus. I just have all this fear. I don't know if the condom was latex because she provided it. So I don't know if it was damaged or had any holes in it.
Thanks again for your help.
in the over 3 years that i have been on this site...there have only been two ppl that have actually tested positive.
hope that relieves your fear ;)
I have no problem with the fact that someone who is HIV positive coming out here and assume it, (if someone wants to do, then, by all means) but I think this is a question that is somewhat inappropriate. This kind of curiosity contributes nothing to the site, which serves to provide advice and a friendly word to people who are in situations of doubt and in a bad time in them life, and seek here a way to calm down themselfs.
Do not take this the wrong way.
Take care.