I am so worried and scared... Please help me.

[Jerico23]

Can someone pls help me? I had a risky affair with a sw 108 days ago. (Protected vaginal, and unprotected oral. She did it.)

Around 40-50 days from the affair, I began to feel abnormally tired, have muscle pains, night sweats, diarrehea for 2-3 days intervals. These symptoms worried me too much and I got tested on day 66th (elisa), 69th (combi), 75th (elisa), 92nd (elisa), and finally 107th (combi). All tests result were negative. For more then 2 weeks there are reddish, brownish spots on my body, redness around my neck, a strange feeling on armpits and neck both sides, redness around my cheeks, and on my legs (small areas). Also I have a whitness on my tongue for nearly 2 months..

I am so scared as my wife started to have smiliar symptoms. I talked to 2 doctors, experts on websites, and experts at the loboratories.. They mostly I hm having these issues because I am under a huge stress..

Seriously, is it that simple? I am experiencing all these problems just what I saw on hiv-aids related websites influenced me? I wanna believe this so much..

Thanks for all your answers... :((

[Jerico23]

Thank you very much for the answer Lou.

[LIZZIE LOU]

stress and anxiety can cause very real physical symptoms.

you DONT have hiv...your tests PROVES this fact.

[Jerico23]

Thanks for the answer, Teak.
I am sure you've replied such questions thousands times before, and i dont wanna take your time anymore, but I am sorry, I just cant help it.. :((
People says symptoms are nothing, test results are everything.. But my wife and I, all of a sudden, started to experience these issues, issues we never had in last 10 years, just because what I saw and red on Internet dragged me into a stress? This was my last question.. Can you please nswer this too? Thanks Teak..

[Teak]

You never had an exposure.