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I am the Insertive Partner
Dear All
I have read many post here on medhelp and on the net too about Oral sex (my exposure).
I was the insertive partner and i was given oral sex from a friend(not a CSW) ... she sucked my penis.I did not see any blood on my ****... as far as i rem BUT while she was performing oral sex on me her teeth caused a scratch on my penis tip(on helmet part) .. it wasnt bleeding as far as i rem...after i came i i washed my penis and checked with that scratch to see if it was bleeding...it wasnt (but it was red and lil rough) ... may be it was bleeding and while she was sucking the bleeding stopped..etc
anyways as i said above i did not see her bleeding from her mouth..(if there was obvious bleeding i would have noticed right?)
what is my risk of hiv transmission?
just one more info... around 2 months before this incident i had unprotected vaginal sex with her and i got paranoid and told her to test to assure me.. she did the test and it was negative...she did the test around 3 weeks after our unprotected vaginal sex episode...
i too did a Hiv test 7 weeks after the unprotected vaginal sex and then again at 10 weeks... both negative...
now this same girl performed oral sex on me... should i worry?as she tested negative and i too?
as i see vaginal sex is riskier than oral sex so if she had the virus then it would have been transferred to me during that vaginal episode...right?
its been around 4.3 weeks since this oral sex episode now.. do i need to test??
pls advice.
thank you
I have read many post here on medhelp and on the net too about Oral sex (my exposure).
I was the insertive partner and i was given oral sex from a friend(not a CSW) ... she sucked my penis.I did not see any blood on my ****... as far as i rem BUT while she was performing oral sex on me her teeth caused a scratch on my penis tip(on helmet part) .. it wasnt bleeding as far as i rem...after i came i i washed my penis and checked with that scratch to see if it was bleeding...it wasnt (but it was red and lil rough) ... may be it was bleeding and while she was sucking the bleeding stopped..etc
anyways as i said above i did not see her bleeding from her mouth..(if there was obvious bleeding i would have noticed right?)
what is my risk of hiv transmission?
just one more info... around 2 months before this incident i had unprotected vaginal sex with her and i got paranoid and told her to test to assure me.. she did the test and it was negative...she did the test around 3 weeks after our unprotected vaginal sex episode...
i too did a Hiv test 7 weeks after the unprotected vaginal sex and then again at 10 weeks... both negative...
now this same girl performed oral sex on me... should i worry?as she tested negative and i too?
as i see vaginal sex is riskier than oral sex so if she had the virus then it would have been transferred to me during that vaginal episode...right?
its been around 4.3 weeks since this oral sex episode now.. do i need to test??
pls advice.
thank you
Listen, if you are so worried about the oral sex, next time use a condom. : o )
10 weeks is a good indication, but 3 month is consider conclusive. You should test at 12 weeks after your last expsoure (unprotected intercourse).
10 weeks is a good indication, but 3 month is consider conclusive. You should test at 12 weeks after your last expsoure (unprotected intercourse).
Listen i forgot...MOST IMP
I had unprotected Vaginal sex with the same girl on july 11th or 12th and i had a test at 7 weeks post exposure and it was negative... and then again at 10 weeks post exposure it was negative too.. NOW between 6-10 weeks i had a slight swelling on my penis foreskin (NOT ON PENIS but FORESKIN) where the nerve is located which connects the penis and foreskin...this happened when i got up in the morning... it was itchy too and swelling was there too... this happened for around 5-6 days then it became ok..
now if tht was a symptom of hiv .. i would have tested positive at 7 weeks right?if not 7 then atleast 10 weeks right?? pls tell me ...i am very scared....!!
I had unprotected Vaginal sex with the same girl on july 11th or 12th and i had a test at 7 weeks post exposure and it was negative... and then again at 10 weeks post exposure it was negative too.. NOW between 6-10 weeks i had a slight swelling on my penis foreskin (NOT ON PENIS but FORESKIN) where the nerve is located which connects the penis and foreskin...this happened when i got up in the morning... it was itchy too and swelling was there too... this happened for around 5-6 days then it became ok..
now if tht was a symptom of hiv .. i would have tested positive at 7 weeks right?if not 7 then atleast 10 weeks right?? pls tell me ...i am very scared....!!
i dunt understand one thing that when there hasnt been any verified documented case for oral sex (insertive) then why does everyone say that it a LOW RISK and not NO RISK !!
MOVE ON. There has never in the history of HIV been a verified documented case of HIV transmission by oral sex.
I found a website which says that ...there has been a reported case in which a man caught hiv from INSERTIVE ORAL SEX with a Prostitute.
http://www.phac-aspc.gc.ca/publicat/epiu-aepi/hiv-vih/oral-eng.php
(Read - Possible Transmission of HIV Between Heterosexual Partners as a Result of Oral Intercourse)
Now what does anyone have to say abt that?especially who say that oral sex is NO risk and that no one has ever got hiv from oral sex in the history of hiv/aids... huh?
http://www.phac-aspc.gc.ca/publicat/epiu-aepi/hiv-vih/oral-eng.php
(Read - Possible Transmission of HIV Between Heterosexual Partners as a Result of Oral Intercourse)
Now what does anyone have to say abt that?especially who say that oral sex is NO risk and that no one has ever got hiv from oral sex in the history of hiv/aids... huh?
It's no risk. MOVE ON.
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But teak as i said above..the 60 yr old caught hiv...via insertive oral sex.
all sites say that its a low risk
i called CDC,univer of MASS in australia...then the helpline in India and also the singapore helpline..they all say its a low risk!
all sites say that its a low risk
i called CDC,univer of MASS in australia...then the helpline in India and also the singapore helpline..they all say its a low risk!
MOVE ON. You didn't have a risk and no one has ever in the history of HIV contracted HIV from getting a blowjob.
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