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Oral given to woman HIV risk??

Had a pretty brief experience a week ago.  I am married and have 2 kids.  Been with only my wife for 10 years. Have 100% assurance I have a clean bill of health prior to last weeks drunken decision.  Met a girl at a bar and she came back to hotel after many beers.  She said at one point she didnt want to do anything since I was a married man but after a while we both started kissing.  I went down on her and licked her vagina and sucked on her vagina lips while a had my one finger inside her vagina.  I recall she was very dry so I used my saliva by spitting on her vagina to wet it up a little and fingered her more.  As far as I can tell that was the extent of my mouth on her.  I did however continue to finger her and massage her vagina until she was aroused. After that I pulle dmy finger out and we went to sleep.  I never had any penial sex with her and in fact my pants never came off.  Scared to hell that I may have been able to contract HIV thru this stupid decision.  I am pretty sure the only fluid was my saliva that I spit on her since she was so dry.    I also have very good oral health, see a dentist 2-3 times per year, no cavities or recent dental work.  I did not brush my teeth for about 20 hours prior to this event.  I do not have any visible cuts in or around my mouth and no sores or bleeding gums.  I know by reading all these post the past week I am probably just full of anxiety but still it is consuming every waking minute. I would like to just hear some views on this particular experience and I cannot wait to put this behind me and seek treatment for drinking because without alcohol I would have never been in this situation.
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All we can do is give you the facts. Oral sex is not a risk of HIV transmission.
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Hope your correct.  I just see so many other viewpoints out there and get stressed out and full of anxiety still.  
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You never had an exposure.

HIV is transmitted by;
Unprotected penetrative anal and/or vaginal sex
Sharing works with other IV drug users
Mother to child
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