Had a pretty brief experience a week ago. I am married and have 2 kids. Been with only my wife for 10 years. Have 100% assurance I have a clean bill of health prior to last weeks drunken decision. Met a girl at a bar and she came back to hotel after many beers. She said at one point she didnt want to do anything since I was a married man but after a while we both started kissing. I went down on her and licked her vagina and sucked on her vagina lips while a had my one finger inside her vagina. I recall she was very dry so I used my saliva by spitting on her vagina to wet it up a little and fingered her more. As far as I can tell that was the extent of my mouth on her. I did however continue to finger her and massage her vagina until she was aroused. After that I pulle dmy finger out and we went to sleep. I never had any penial sex with her and in fact my pants never came off. Scared to hell that I may have been able to contract HIV thru this stupid decision. I am pretty sure the only fluid was my saliva that I spit on her since she was so dry. I also have very good oral health, see a dentist 2-3 times per year, no cavities or recent dental work. I did not brush my teeth for about 20 hours prior to this event. I do not have any visible cuts in or around my mouth and no sores or bleeding gums. I know by reading all these post the past week I am probably just full of anxiety but still it is consuming every waking minute. I would like to just hear some views on this particular experience and I cannot wait to put this behind me and seek treatment for drinking because without alcohol I would have never been in this situation.