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Im STUPID - What are my risks?
Teak & Others
Yup i screwed up again with the same bar girl last night. Besides telling me (yes i deserve it) how stupid i am, please give me your honest opinion.
I fingered her vagina but the finger i used had skin that was peeled off behind my finger nail. It wasnt sore (no open wound just a layer of skin was peeled off).
Also she just recently had a breast reduction and made her areolo (sp?) smaller so there was dried blood (significant blood scab where i assume there were stitches) around the areolo on both of her breasts. She touched her clitoros (during my fingering part) and touched her breast (when she showed my what she had done) a few times during the hour or so we were together. She gave me a hand job (this time i insisted no saliva) to end the night. Room was dark so i could not see her hands and my penis has no sores or abrasions.
Questions:
1. Is the fingering vagina part safe for HIV?
2. Do you think i need to be tested for HIV for the hand job since there may have been vaginal fluid or some blood (i think the blood on her breast was dry) on her hand?
3. She told me she was clean but im still stressed. When breast reduction surgery is done in the US do they always test the patients blood for HIV prior to surgery?
4. Is what i did safe and would not put my wife in danger of HIV?
Yes i probably need help with this addiction. I cannot live with this stress. Its killing me.
Thanks again for your wonderful work on this forum helping people like me.
Yup i screwed up again with the same bar girl last night. Besides telling me (yes i deserve it) how stupid i am, please give me your honest opinion.
I fingered her vagina but the finger i used had skin that was peeled off behind my finger nail. It wasnt sore (no open wound just a layer of skin was peeled off).
Also she just recently had a breast reduction and made her areolo (sp?) smaller so there was dried blood (significant blood scab where i assume there were stitches) around the areolo on both of her breasts. She touched her clitoros (during my fingering part) and touched her breast (when she showed my what she had done) a few times during the hour or so we were together. She gave me a hand job (this time i insisted no saliva) to end the night. Room was dark so i could not see her hands and my penis has no sores or abrasions.
Questions:
1. Is the fingering vagina part safe for HIV?
2. Do you think i need to be tested for HIV for the hand job since there may have been vaginal fluid or some blood (i think the blood on her breast was dry) on her hand?
3. She told me she was clean but im still stressed. When breast reduction surgery is done in the US do they always test the patients blood for HIV prior to surgery?
4. Is what i did safe and would not put my wife in danger of HIV?
Yes i probably need help with this addiction. I cannot live with this stress. Its killing me.
Thanks again for your wonderful work on this forum helping people like me.
Whats your opinon on the hand job part if there may be vaginal fluid or blood on her hands? Hopefully there wasnt blood since the blood on her breast looked dry. Her breast did not look good with the amount of blood scabs around her nipples (I think her surgery was about 2 weeks ago). Could dry blood mixed with my precum when performing the hand job be a concern?
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