Please Help!!! Confused and Worried!!

[gorobertogo]

I messed-up... I shd not have done it but did mess my life to some extent. I paid for sex 8 days back. She put on the Condom on me... it never tore during the act. But it slipped down a little as I was not fully erect. When i realized it i changed the condom. After some more time still no erection and hence she removed and stroked me till i ejaculated. May be I had this guilt and did not indulge in the activity.

Now I am paranoid and fear that i have contracted HIV. Is it possible? i will be meeting my wife 20 days from now. I want to meet her completely convinced that I am clean! If I get it tested after 28 days will that be a conclusive result or do you think i need to wait further?

I have read various topics similar and hope I am not repetitive. I am convinced that I need a test but i just want to confirm if 28 days test is conclusive enough. Also, I reside in India and I want to know whats the exact test which i need to take?

Please help.

Cheers,
Fear and Guilt is killing me!!

[tomMulligan]

You dont need for any HIV tests. Im assuring with truly certainty that you had no risk from that incident. Accept it and Move on.

[gorobertogo]

Thanks Mate for the response! But i am just paranoid and a test result will give me some peace of mind. Which test do you suggest now that its 4 weeks from the encounter. I want to do some test and get rid of this worry from my thoughts!

Please suggest a good test.

[tomMulligan]

You had no risk at all so your flu is TOTALLY not related to HIV. You dont need for any HIV tests. You're absolutely fine mate.

[gorobertogo]

Hi Teak,

SOS please help!!!
Today is exactly 28 days from the encounter. I have flu like symptomps from last night due to serious nose blockade. Do you think it could be because of HIV? Please help... can i go and get myself tested after 30 days? What test should i take to get some relief?

[gorobertogo]

Thanks for the comment. But, mine is not circumcised. Do you still feel that I dont need a test? Am I safe?

[Teak]

Condom slipping is not a risk, as long is the head of the penis is covered there is no risk to the urethra. For your information that is the only site beside the hood for HIV transmission.

[Teak]

A condom slipping is NOT A RISK.

[Vance2335]

If you have read topics similar then you know this is not a risk. You had no risk and do not need to be tested.