Thanks, I appreciate the extra input..I definitely feel a lot better about the whole situation..: )
I'm not a big expert. Just from my experience, I have never seen semen going out of the condom, which is on. It stays always in the top of the condom, if it has been put on properly. Or if there's some air inside, then it might go about 1/4 down the penis, but never out. And that is quite usual that after male's ejaculation people continue moving for some time.
In addition, I think even if there would have been some leak at the bottom of the penis, it would be very difficult from technical point of view to go up back into vagina.
Thanks for your input..I have one more question..do you think it would make a difference in semen consistency? I've read that semen can be either thin and runny or very thick..in my case I wouldn't know since I only saw some in the condom..but if it was thin, would it have made it's way down do you think?
To my experience, even the penis is soft already, the condom fits quite firmly on it, and no any semen is going out. So, if the condom was on, you're safe.