Question on ARS and Unprotected oral Dubai

[irrationalfears1007]

i have gone thru many threads and i know for sure that unprotected Oral (BJ) carries zero risk, however anxiety plays its own game and hence i was looking at answers to some specific questions.

My exposure:-
date of exposure - 20th April 2013 - she was a turkish escort, claimed to be on a resident visa, premium escort @2000 dhs....worked in a salon during the day and did this for extra money to support family back in turkey...she asked me for a condom and she dint carry one for random checks in dubai by the cops. Anyway she started with an unprotected oral blowjob and then we had protected sex twice...condom was intact. when asked directly she said she was clean, recently tested and bcos she was on a resident visa testing is frequent.

Question 1- she had a lip piercing which she removed during the BJ, wud any blood from that pierced hole put me at risk during the BJ?

Question 2 - i got a sore throat on the 9th day after the exposure with yellow phlegm, i took antibiotics and never had any fever, does that mean the medication supressed the ARS symptoms like fever n rash?

Question 3 - Do i need to test?

Question 4 - what scares me is that bcos i cudnt finish the first time with protected sex she OFFERED me to go without the condom the second time but to ejaculate outside. I insisted on using the Condom and finished up the second time. My mind says she must be this casual with others and she is infected and hence i wud have got infected during the BJ?

Question 5 - I was all fine after reading other posts but when i got this sore throat on the 9th day the anxiety flaired up and hence im writing to you for an asssessment. Can i just forget about this move on and continue with unprotected sex with my wife?

thanks

[irrationalfears1007]

i think may be it has to do with the whole visual aspect of fluids coming in contact with genitals and mouth or may be the conservative CDC or for that matter other forums and sites that say its a risk. its quite sad to see so much anxiety around this.....and then the whole low risk, little risk and use of rarely by the experts.

[Vance2335]

You tell me, we have facts backing up our answers. I can't tell you why so many people come here and ask questions about oral sex.

[irrationalfears1007]

anyone?

[irrationalfears1007]

One last question for all of you.


If Oral sex is safe sex, zero risk, no risk why is there so much scare and anxiety out there with people and so many questions on oral sex on the forum despite there being no risk.

What is triggering questions on oral sex again and again and again?

[Vance2335]

Therapist to help you deal with anxiety/stress.

[irrationalfears1007]

thank you for that quick reply lizzie.

suggest a way to put an end to all the what ifs...testing is quite stressful mentally and the scare of a false positive test.