Hi Teak,
A little over 6 weeks ago I had receptive oral sex (unprotected) with another man. He did not ejaculate in my mouth but I did get some pre-*** in my mouth (spat it out twice). I tested negative on an antibody test at 30 days. Admittedly, I had been panicing a lot an I worried myself into a herpes outbreak (I've had HSV2 for a long time). Now I'm concerned that it may be that HIV has lowered my immune system and that's why I had the outbreak. I'm certain that my story sounds like everybody elses but I could use some advice. thanks,
Worried in Myrtle Beach
"irresponsible?" you can say that again. The chance that you caught HIV are a lot lower than you transmitting herpes to her. I hope you told her you had herpes before you had unprotected sex with her.