I am a woman who had Unprotected Sex with no ejaculation on 3 occasions, one in April, one in November and one 6 weeks ago. the first two were in the military, who i know does mandatory testing, and swore they had no STD's. I know you say that dont diagnose with symptoms, but is the reverse also true? What if you have absolutely NO Symptoms of anything--healthy as a horse? Does that diminish the need for testing? Also does being healthy (I run 30+ miles per week) have any affect on HIV and any symptoms? Thanks for your forum!