Three months ago I had failed vaginal sex with my girlfriend who had two babies, one was seven month old, looked like health, another had six year old, healthy. After that, I had many symptoms including ucler in outside mouth corner, lyph node in neck is big at first two weeks, discomfortable in throat, sometime stomatch pain and some diarrhea, dry mouth and rise temperature(oral 99.3). I did following test:
10/14/08(after exposure 25 days),RNA loading,CD4/CD8 ratio and liver enzyme activity,CBC,HIV antibody, all normal.
10/30/, 11/15, 11/25, 12/10, Home access kit, EIA test negative.
11/22, my girlfriend using Home access kit, EIA test negative.
11/25, RNA loading PCR, negative.
12/10 (12 weeks after exposure), Elisa test positive, but Western blot(three antibodies) show negative.
Doctor ask me one month later to see him again.
So many tests I did, and gave me so many axiety. Now I had some diabiet. This may cause exccesive dry mouth. I had herpes simple2 from that sex. I have EBV,and CV virus, I do not have Heptitis A,B,C.
Please help me answer why Elisa test positive and Western blot negative, which one is more sensetive? If next time, both positive?
How to reduce my anxiety, which already cause problem to me?
Does Home access kit be reliable, although it was approved by FDA?
Your efforts are realy appreciated!