Protected sextet and anxiety

[Manu_88]

Dear Dr, I would like to share my secular exposure at massage paloure. I had a sexual exposure with a girl. I covered my penis with a condom before sex. I laid down on my back and she tried to put my pen is inside her. Before she put my pen is I side her I ejaculated due to fear, anxiety and stress. But she managed to put my semi eracted penis inside her foe 2-6 seconds. After that I asked to move away. Before this I ducked her breastfeeding and I tasted some.liquid kind of thing coming from her breastfeeding which I spited. Had a kiss no french or deep kiss. After when she moved away I checked my condom and I found it intact and roll out the rubber and put it in the trash box. I didn't find any leakage, break or slippage. Yes I would like to share that before sec I took some baby oil and rubbed it on the vigina. And after I touch my covered penis. Does it makes my condom weak enough that it will break? Also when the girl put my penis inside her she remain sited for 2-6 seconds. No movement of any kind.

I want you to share your  assessment on this. It will help a lot.

Regards

[Manu_88]

Thanks pal, it's  28th day
.I had few symptoms like cluster headache with nausea,  a small blister /sore pimple under my tongue for 2-3rd days,  coughing and scratchy throat  for 2-3 days went away by taking allergic tabs. No fever no running nose, no loosy motion.

[malbat]

Continue to work with your doctor. Whatever you are feeling is NOT hiv.

[malbat]

Please see a doctor if you're sick. It has nothing to do with hiv.

[Manu_88]

Thanks Pal, but after 15 days post activity,  I  had some  cough in for 3 days. After taking anti allergic medicine itshould gone. Also had a tiny pimple on the left side of my tongue, pain a bit. No bleeding.
Now I have dry throat and mouth, sometimes. Especially in the morning. Tongue feel little dry.I don't kn

[Manu_88]

Thanks for  your  reply. But from today afternoon onwards I started feeling scratchy throat and little bit of  body ach. Do it has something to  do  with infection. And today is the 8th day post exposure.

Regards

[ArunShankar]

Manu, you had absolutely no risk. Whatever you feel today are either due to anxiety, or are symptoms of some other disease. Chill :)

Besides, ARS symptoms don't usually appear just 8 days after exposure. They appear, on an average 22 days after exposure.

[Manu_88]

After removing my condom. I also checked my penis skin and glan and I didn't find any nick or cut or ulcer on it. It was okay. People say that in the case of  men there should  not be and cuts,  ulcer,  sore or wound on the penis as it will lead to infection . This is the olny way  through which men gets infected. Is it  true?

[malbat]

When a condom fails, it breaks wide open. They are designed to do that. You will definitely notice a broken condom. You would have had a hard time removing it. There are no such things as small holes.

[RubyWitch]

A man does NOT have to have a cut, a sore, an ulcer or a wound on his penis to become infected with HIV. Whoever told you that does not know what they are talking about and it is NOT TRUE.

The virus enters the man through the urethra........the opening on the tip of your penis. (The hole you urinate out of) The head of your penis must ALWAYS be covered during insertive vaginal/anal sex to prevent infection.

[Manu_88]

Thanks for the reply.  The thing which is making me very worried about the oil that was on my hand. Although it was not that much oily but still it was sticky. I am sure that the condom was intact but my mind says "what if" it was failed and I didn't knew about it, as the light in room was dim.

Does small damage to the condom also is a high risk?

[RubyWitch]

You had NO RISK for HIV from the protected vaginal sex and NO RISK from the extremely small amount of breast milk you MAY have ingested.
When using artificial lubrication, it is best to use something that is made specifically for sexual intercourse, but the baby oil would not have damaged the condom like Vaseline would.
You are fine with zero risks! Relax