Quick Questions,need your advise.Teak

[christoph22]

Hello:
     I am really confused by some "oral on woman" risk debates,and i've read Teak answered "there were documentted cases of cunnilingus but there was no verified case." and i know this web site states oral is not a risk.
   But now i have some questions:
1.why oral on woman is not a risk,could you just explain this a little?
2.If a person ,like me, may get bleed gums after teeth brush or after sleep,and i only had a oral exposure on a massage girl,so what about this kind of risk tome ?
3.Teak said there was no verified case of cunilingus,what is the defination of "a verified case"?
4.Do you know anyone on this websites or somewhere else tested positive but only had a exposure which was oral on a woman?

thanks

[christoph22]

And i.......tested 3 time out to 8 months after my exposure!!!!
But then i am so worried about the "late seroconversion"!...so i think maybe my exposure is not a risk...then i should not so worry

[tomMulligan]

Yes and You had no risk from that incident. don't cause yourself worrying needlessly coz it might drive you to anxiety. accept that you had no risk and move on. Make an appointment to your dentist regarding your bleeding gums.

[christoph22]

my bad,sorry for my bad english.

my situation here was I didn;t know if there was any fluid out when i was licking,but the licking only took 10-15 seconds,and before i went down i noticed the girl's there was dry,and i've only licked her vaginal lips part(mostly out part,not put my tongue inside).
So the worst situation for me is little fluid was licked into my mouth and my teeth was little bleeding...

so i mean if the saliver could inhibit the  virus, are you sure tha saliver on my tongue could make the virus be not active enough to infect?

[tomMulligan]

I think you have mis-interpreted me. Saliva techinically speaking is a sterile fluid. Saliva contains enzymes that helps to in.activate the virus. You cannot get HIV from anyone's saliva.

[christoph22]

so it's not that once one virus  entered your body,you will get infected? it must be some amount viruses right?

"saliva contains enzymes that inhibit the virus" and in my situation if there were some vaginal fluids they would be exposed to both air and my saliver,so the virus should be damaged and be inactive?

how much dose the saliver could inhibit the virus,very soon or very slow?are you sure?

[tomMulligan]

"Your saliva contains enzymes that inhibit the virus ( making the virus to be in.active ), should they be exposed to infected genital secretions. The virus has been exposed to the air and elements, rendering it inactive in an oral situation"

what do you mean "give enough pathways" ? enough way where the virus can enter to your bloodstreams.

[christoph22]

the bleed gum i mean it usually little bleed after my teeth brush,but sometimes it also bleeds.. it bleeds between my two teeth ,and only here.

if i licked some vaginal fluid (whether or not i didn't know,i only know before i licked the vaginal lips part there were dry.But i am sure she was not in her menstration .),the saliver-vaginal fluids mixed fludis may get into the small part between my two teeth where it might bleed.and  what do you mean "give enough pathways" ?

[tomMulligan]

1. Oral sex both in man or woman pose no risk in HIV.
2. Still no risk. Blood transfusion has to be the virus reach to one's bloodstream.
3. There are no proven cases of transmission to that manner. A small cut, abrassion, cutticle cuts and etc.. does not pose any risk. WHy? because those cuts doesn't give enough pathways for the virus to enter in one's veins and bloodstreams.
4.None.