Scared after passionate oral sex

[personinuk]

Hello, I have recently been to Poland and on the final night (Thursday night / Friday morning) I went to a lapdancing club.  I was drunk and ended up performing very passionate oral and anal oral sex on the lapdancer for a long time.  I then masturbated whilst licking her.  I'm concerned about HIV as a filling came out of my tooth on the Monday and during the rigors of passion I scraped my frenulum on my tongue with my bottom teeth.  I only noticed in the morning.
Ive read the article from Nursegirl - and it put my mind at rest, but I have now woken again early in the morning in a cold sweat, concerned that every case is different.  I have a headache, cant eat, cant sleep - but this I would suspect is anxiety.  I also have a white coating on my tongue and my throat feels strange, I'm also concerned i may pass this to my wife, does that sound contageous?  I rushed to A&E when I got back to home and rang advice centres.  Out of the 4 people I spoke to, 2 said I shouldnt worry and 2 said that its pefectly possible to get HIV from my actions.  I didnt tell them about the masturbation part. Im a stupid idiot for my actions and regret every single moment.
Thankyou

[personinuk]

Whoah! I was just saying thanks thats all! I just got scared and telling everyone to trust your comments.. Sorry if it didn't read that way

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[personinuk]

Well what a roller coaster of a 6 weeks its been. Everyone on this site has said no need to test, but hey, im paranoid by nature and have to do it. Going tomorrow for 6 week rapid test and all other sti tests. I finally confessed to my wife 3 days ago what i did. Couldn't take the guilt any longer. That went down well :-/ but its certainly put our lives into perspective and whether or not we work things out, who knows. But it will certainly make is or break us. just wanna say thanks to the guy's that answer our questions and worries on this site. Its tough when you wake up, hungover and just go into blind panic about the drunken night before
anyway cheers all :-)

[personinuk]

God i really hope so... Nightmare scenario... Never again...

[raj93]

ORAL SEX is NOT a risk for hiv!!!!

USE CONDOMS for penetrative sex and you will remain hiv negative!!!!