Scared to Death

[frightened572]

On July 10th I engaged in a risky sexual behavior. I allowed unprotected anal sex with a sketchy individual. I am now experiencing swollen lymph nodes, sore throat, fatigue, nausea, and night sweats (2 times). I have not had a fever, head aches, rash, or any other symptoms. These symptoms stated four weeks ago and have progressed from there.I took a test 2 weeks after the incident but know it was inconclusive due to the window period. I have a boyfriend now and we've had sexual encounters several times and he experiences no symptoms. Essentially I am terrified, I am only 18 and cannot have this right now or ever. I will get tested again in 2 weeks, but in the mean time I just need something

[Teak]

Wait for your 3 month post exposure date and then test so your test is conclusive.

[frightened572]

I am going to get tested, but I am at 10 weeks...is that too soon?

[Teak]

Absent of symptoms is not a good sign of anything the only way to know your status is by testing.

[really_worried_guy]

Your symptoms are a bit late for HIV. Also, absence of fever and rash is a good sign. However, diagnosing HIV based on symptoms is a waste of time. Testing is the only way to know if you have HIV or not. Get tested at 3 months mark to know for sure. Meanwhile, avoid having unprotected sex of any kind with your partner.

[gumm_BIH]

The best would be to abstain from sex until you get final results. And if sex happens, it should be protected! I think that you are aware of your risk, and I'll keep you fingers crossed.