Anal SEX with Prostitute using Condom and impacts.

[loser_guy]

I recently was at a  Bar when a hooker (her main job is give massages) approached me asking if I needed massage. I told no, but ending up talking just stuff. Finally she asked if we should go to  a motel to spend some time. I told I will not have sex bust just explore each other and stay naked in bed. She also said she gets tested every three months.

We went to a Motel. She gave herself a shower and came to bed with me. We spend time touching each other and some lips kissing. She seemed to have become horny and asked me to give her anal sex (without deep penetration). I wsa hesitatant but have never tried it and out of excitement put on the condom and have anal sex (not very deep)...In a min it was over and I threw the condom away..urinated and cleaned my thingy and we left the motel. I came back to my hotel and took a shower.

I am a family man with a handsome son and a beautiful son. I have been repenting about this, not sleeping, not able to focus at work and ever since this happened and do not know what do to now....Even though I am scared I do not know with just the lip kissing, staying in contact with her body and the anal sex..if I will get any HIV or STD's...

This is the first time this has happenned...I wil never do this again...Any advice is highly appreciated.

[loser_guy]

Thanks a lot Lizzie. The frequent bio 2nd act is then probably due to anxiety I guess. That is what prompted me to reach out again.

I read your profile and thanks for taking your time to help everyone here.

[LIZZIE LOU]

the added "recollections" do not change the assessment.  you had no risk

[loser_guy]

Nick and Lizzie,

Sorry to come back. Just after the reassurance received I have still been very resentful about my action and been very anxious. I have been going to the loo for bio natural 2. I also recollected thAt I did not wash my hands with soap but with just water and wiped off my thingy with toilet paper before Taking a cab to come back to my hotel and take a shower. I also did not check if the condom was broken but the out come was collected in the condom.

I am just praying to god almighty and have sworn that I will not do anything like this again. I cannot look and stand in front of my wife. Please advise what should I do?

Thank you again for your time.

[loser_guy]

Thank you both.

[NickOne7]

NO, Even if your "Thingy" touched her A without a condom on you would not be at risk of HIV infection.

[LIZZIE LOU]

transmission requires penetration

[loser_guy]

Thanks a lot Nick for the quick answer and making me feel at ease. I have not been sleeping for the past few days and opening up to receive a feedback helps a lot. One thing I forgot to mention. I remembered that the girl wanted my thingy to be between her butts before I had the condom on for A-Sex. I am kind of sure my tip of the thingy did not touch her 'A'  before I put the condom.

Does this action call for any grave concern.

Thanks again for your help.

[LIZZIE LOU]

hiv is transmitted through...
UNprotected vaginal / anal intercourse
sharing iv drug works
mother to child

kissing is not a risk...saliva is not infectious.

clearly you can see that you had no risk

[NickOne7]

You were not at risk of getting HIV from anything you did that night.  You need to put it behind you and move on.

You have no HIV worries