Hello, please, I need some advice, Here is my story.
I´m a married man and my wife (who is 6 months pregnant) went for a trip.
4 nights ago (2 days after my wife left) I was very drunk and went to a strip club in Mexico, I met a girl there and we
had some drinks and after that we went to a cheap motel room.
After some talking she did me a back massage. Later on, she took off her pants and I went for unprotected oral sex that last like 2 minutes.
Later she took my pants off and with lubricant she rubbered many times her vagina with my penis, after some massage of my penis between her legs
and against her vagina lips I felt that i was penetrating her a little bit, but here´s is the thing, I don´t remember very well penetrating her or not just
a very warm sensation. She said that my penis never penetrate her, that the warm sensation was boecause my penis was between her legs an her vagina with the lube,
but I have a weird sensation that i did penetrate her, about 5 seconds of unprotected exopsure.
I got scared and we stop all the intercourse.
Later, like ten minutes after that I noticed like a red rash (like circle shaped isolated and localized only in her left leg about a size of a tennis ball),
I asked her what it was and she said that it was nothing to worry about it and she cover herself. Later we took a shower and she told me that I have nothing
to be scared off becasue I didn't penetrate her and she was clean and was a mother of two. I asked if she use drugs and she told that she occasionally smoke meth.
The day after I went to the bar where I met this girl and they told me that all girls that work there do STD and HIV exams every 2 weeks and that
I have nothing to worry about. But I´m afraid that maybe they don´t do it very strictly.
I´ve been worry for 4 nights, not much sleep, not much eating, can´t concetrate at work and feeling very guilty about doing that stupid thing to my wife.
It´s in indeed the most stupid thing I haver ever done.
Here are my concrete questions.
1.- What is the risk of getting STD from unprotected oral sex (cunnilingus) and which exams of STD should I take and when (window period)?
2.- What is the risk of getting HIV form the brief unprotected vaginal intercourse?
3.- Does ELISA test (or any antibody) test will be reliable after 25 days of exposure?
4.- Does the red rash in her leg (with the characteristics I described) could be some ARS symptom?
5.- I´ve herad about the new Procleix "early test" that can detect HIV infection after a week of exposure (by Gen-Probe Inc.) They are doing it at
the University of California-San Diego's Antiviral Research Center (ARC). Is this reliable?, shoukd I take one?
Please help me, I´m very worried about loosing my life, my wife and my future son.