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Unprotected oral
Hello,
Sorry to be too graphic here but I just want to know if I did anything wrong that would put me in a chance of getting STI/HIV.
I had protected sex with three sex workers in Jakarta, first one two weeks ago, another one the day after, and the last one a week ago. The girls belonged to a large agency and they were very expensive. The person in charge told me that they get tested every two weeks.
At my first encounter I urged her to give me an unprotected blowjob (Stupidest thing EVER!) and she reluctantly did. It lasted for about 30 to 45 seconds. And I masturbated the top of her clitoris (pubic region not lower, I was "careful" not to go any lower) 1st mistake. During intercourse I suspected that the condom might have broken (but now I don't think it did) so I changed it.
My second one was new to the agency and was quite inexperienced so she might have been exposed to STIs lesser (good news for me), during intercourse she urged me to change the condom as it was causing her discomfort and I did. later I touched her labia for about 2 seconds. 2nd mistake.
The third one sucked my scrotum and my nipples while I still had the condom on. 3rd mistake. At one time she used baby oil but I immediately changed the condom and let her use her saliva instead.
So far at day 13 from my first, and day 7 from my last, I don't have any symptoms whatsoever. And FYI I used condoms labeled; "Slightly thicker for extra protection" the whole time and never had vaginal intercourse without it and never used my mouth (except for kissing).
1.) Assuming they were STI/HIV positive, am I at risk here?
2.) How long till the first slightest symptom of HIV or any other STI might appear?
3.) I was thinking of buying a test kit from this website: www.hiv-test-yourself.com but the doctor in this article condemns it as fraud: http://www.thebody.com/Forums/AIDS/SafeSex/Current/Q192378.html what do you think of this company and its reliability and other such tests for that matter?
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Quick reply highly appreciated.
Sorry to be too graphic here but I just want to know if I did anything wrong that would put me in a chance of getting STI/HIV.
I had protected sex with three sex workers in Jakarta, first one two weeks ago, another one the day after, and the last one a week ago. The girls belonged to a large agency and they were very expensive. The person in charge told me that they get tested every two weeks.
At my first encounter I urged her to give me an unprotected blowjob (Stupidest thing EVER!) and she reluctantly did. It lasted for about 30 to 45 seconds. And I masturbated the top of her clitoris (pubic region not lower, I was "careful" not to go any lower) 1st mistake. During intercourse I suspected that the condom might have broken (but now I don't think it did) so I changed it.
My second one was new to the agency and was quite inexperienced so she might have been exposed to STIs lesser (good news for me), during intercourse she urged me to change the condom as it was causing her discomfort and I did. later I touched her labia for about 2 seconds. 2nd mistake.
The third one sucked my scrotum and my nipples while I still had the condom on. 3rd mistake. At one time she used baby oil but I immediately changed the condom and let her use her saliva instead.
So far at day 13 from my first, and day 7 from my last, I don't have any symptoms whatsoever. And FYI I used condoms labeled; "Slightly thicker for extra protection" the whole time and never had vaginal intercourse without it and never used my mouth (except for kissing).
1.) Assuming they were STI/HIV positive, am I at risk here?
2.) How long till the first slightest symptom of HIV or any other STI might appear?
3.) I was thinking of buying a test kit from this website: www.hiv-test-yourself.com but the doctor in this article condemns it as fraud: http://www.thebody.com/Forums/AIDS/SafeSex/Current/Q192378.html what do you think of this company and its reliability and other such tests for that matter?
.
Quick reply highly appreciated.
Ok me21ddd
Anxiety strikes back! today's my big day, I'm going to test. Wish me luck!
Anxiety strikes back! today's my big day, I'm going to test. Wish me luck!
You don't need to get tested. If the condom had broken, there wouldn't be any doubts about it. When condoms break, they don't have tiny holes, but they break wide open.
Doctors on the expert forum consider oral sex as a NO RISK exposure. There isn't a single confirmed reported case of transmission via oral sex in the history of HIV.
To sum it up, you were never at risk of HIV from what you reported.
Doctors on the expert forum consider oral sex as a NO RISK exposure. There isn't a single confirmed reported case of transmission via oral sex in the history of HIV.
To sum it up, you were never at risk of HIV from what you reported.
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