Sorry, I'm a little crazy. Wont be posting anymore.
I don't get it. You've been flooding the HIV forums with oral sex questions, and now you suddenly reveal that you had unprotected anal sex.
Learn this- the insertive anal sex was your ONLY risk. The oral exposures do not even show up on the radar. Your dry mouth and canker sores do not change this at all.
Have a final HIV test in two weeks- it will be 12 weeks after your unprotected anal sex exposure and will be conclusive. At this point, given your 9 week test, you should expect a negative result.
Going forward, you need to get your priorities straight: unprotected anal sex is high risk for men who have sex with men. You can't rely solely on someone's word concerning their status, or you will eventually get burned. Unless you are in a monogamous relationship where you have tested together and know that you're both negative, consistent condom use is essential for anal sex.
your only risk was the unprotected anal. a test at 3 months post exposure will give you a conclusive test result.