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Worried out of mind! Oral & anal

Yesterday I had protected oral sex done to me. And I also had protected anal sex done to her. Afterwards, I went to the bathroom and took off my condom. It looked intacted. I filled it up with water to see if there were any holes. And then I blew the condom like a balloon. In both instances there were no holes or any escapes. Seemed intacted. My question is am I at risk? Do I have to test for HIV? By the way, I used Lifestyles name brand condom. In my opinion, I dont think I was at risk. But I want to hear from all of you. Maybe there are information or facts that I dont know. Nonetheless, im still worried. Thank you!
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All im asking is how HIV enter your body. Does fluid just goes inside you or does her fluid and mine have to mix in order for me to get infect me? Arent you a teacher in this area?  I need a bit of facts. Thanks Teak
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No,no, no we are not going into some hypothetical situation you never had.
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Please educate me Teak. Lets say I wore a condom and lets say it broke. And my partner has HIV. Does she automatically infect me? Does the infection occur to my pee pee whole? Or is there suppose to be a mixture of my fluids and hers to infect me? How does that process occur. Please educate me , thanks
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That's where you're suppose to ejaculate.
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Thanks teak, even though I ejaculated inside the condom?. Im safe?
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You had protected anal sex, you had no risk
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Even if I penetrated anal ? Blood can be present in the anus. What you guys think?
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1907998 tn?1331839319
no a intact condom pervents hiv.your fine.
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NO, now move on because we have answered you over and over again about your no risk situations.
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Rainlover77 and helpme222, even if the condom didnt break, can HIV or other diseases penetrate through the condom and to the penis? Serious question...
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1907998 tn?1331839319
yes it shows the condom was intact.if the condom broke you wouldve known the head of your penis would have been expose.so i can for sure tell you dont worry keep using a latex condom for anal and vaginal sex and you will be hiv negitive.
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Thanks helpme2222. This is even after the fact that I filled the condom with water and I blew it up like a balloon. No evidence of holes or any sort of escape in the condom. So I am ok helpme2222??
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1907998 tn?1331839319
no hiv concern here.oral sex does not transmit hiv and you had protected anal sex.congrats on using a condom and dont fear you dont have an hiv concern.latex condoms when used properly are 100 percent safe.
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Guilt plays a massive part in the whole scheme of things.Ok,you did the wrong thing but you were lucky that HIV is not a concern for you.Learn from this.
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Can feeling guilty be a factor of why I am worrying? I am married. I guess guilt can play a part. Can it?
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That is exactly what I'm telling you--no risk and no testing required.All the best.
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Thanks Rainlover71... So I had no risk??? And no HIV is required? Is that what your telling me?
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Nothing to worry about at all--both sexual acts were protected.
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