Worried sick

[Yungace]

I recently met up with a girl of unknown HIV status. I am actually a virgin (never had insertive sex). We lightly kissed a couple times. She gave me a full body massage. I fondled her breasts and sucked her nipples for maybe 5 seconds. I'm not sure if she was lactating as I didn't see any milk come out. She then gave me a handjob and I ejaculated. That's all that happened.

Based on my research of this site, I'm sure I was at no risk of HIV and do not need testing. But for some reason I'm still worried sick. I fear that there was breast milk and what if it went into my mouth. The roof of my mouth was swollen at the time. Now I want to get tested but I have to wait at least 4 weeks to get a more accurate result with the antibody test. Please assure me I will be ok. I'm really worried guys.

Thanks

[Yungace]

How come I've been feeling fatigued, dry mouth and a cough now. I went for an antibody test today and it came out negative. It's only been 17 days though.

[paranoidstd]

Your over thinking it. Reread what i told you over and over. You do not have hiv and no need to test for hiv. If you can't get over it. Get tested for the sake only of peace of mind.

[Yungace]

Does the roof of my mouth being swollen make a difference? So are you saying that I don't need testing at all? Remember I've never had penetrative sex before.

[paranoidstd]

Even if she was lactating still not a risk. Your digestive juices will kill the hiv virus. That is why ingestion of small amounts of blood is not a risk.

[Yungace]

Thanks for that. But would it be very obvious if she was lactating? Worst case scenario is some drops may have went into my mouth right? Isn't that a risk in itself? Also HIV isn't very common right?

[paranoidstd]

You will be fine. As there was no penetrative sex. Even if we assume the worst case scenario your partner had hiv. Kissing-no risk, moth to non genital areas(nipples) no risk. Remember as long as you DO NOT PUT IN. THERE IS NO RISK.