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Your opinion please.

Last November I stupidly had unprotected sex with a man. I am female, 52.  In January - I had a subborn mouth ulcer, followed by extreme tiredness, extreme bone pain, and nausea.

Then, almost immediately after that, my bowle movements changed, I started to loose weight, in March I developed a yeast infection, which is not only down there, it is in my mouth, on my skin and nails,(my skin feels sticky) and my body odour has changed. Sometimes I feel full up, of yeast. I also got a rash on my shoulders, and my gums bleed every time I brush my teeth.  Also I have lost all of the lovely dark haris on my arms and legs!  
I have lost 17kgs in six months.  My skin texture has changed.  My sense of taste, and smell have changed, or gone.
Also - i have night sweats every night, vaginal and urinary infections, continuous since March.  And I feel dirty.

I am afraid that I may have had hiv for a long time,without knowing it, maybe twenty years or so, and that the recent exposure maybe reinfected me?  I used to live in India - I was not a drug user  but I did have one or two unprotectected episodes - that was a long time ago.

Does this sound like hiv infection maybe after the asymptomatic stage? 3rd stage? Please help  me.
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186166 tn?1385259382
you should have insisted on a condom and you wouldnt have to worry about his drug use.
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And i only found out afterwards that he used to be using drugs heavily!!! He didnt bother telling me.
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186166 tn?1385259382
yep...fear of the unknown is what happens when you choose to have unprotected sex.

testing is the only way to know.  it's just that simple ! ! ! ! !
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Don'd get the cart before the horse.
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thanks. i am going to test. but am frightened because if it is hiv i will need to go on meds to stop the weight loss. and i have heard all stories about how the mes make u feel so sick, and make you fat/thin...etc.  its driving me crazy. and i am so scared!
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HIV has no specific symptoms. TEST.....
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dear teac,

i thought that weight loss, vaginal infections, urinary infections, and thrush (candida) are all symptoms of hiv? also i have had swollen glands in my neck for three months now, and they are painful.

i have lost my bum, my bum has shrunk, my legs have shrunk, and my arms too.  I am starting to look like a skeleton.



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No it doesn't doesn't sound like HIV infections nor is it ARS. You can test now for a conclusive result. See your doctor for your symptoms.
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I know. But I want to know your opinion? Do the symptoms sound like hiv to you? You are an expert.
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186166 tn?1385259382
if you are concerned about your status...then test.  testing is the ONLY way to know one's status.
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