chills, headaches, muscle pain

[mustang78]

I know what your anser will be but i am heading to gp tomorrow and want to ask the right questions....as you will read in previous post, i got erotic body slide with handjob....she wore thong panties the entire time...since week 5 i have had on and offf chills and headache....hiv did not cross my mind until week seven when chills would not stop...hiv - with antibody test at week 7....chills and headaches did not stop...approximately 9 weeks after exposure began to feel pain under chin and in armpits and chest...headaches got very bad since then and have hard time controlling them even with advil...got hiv antibody at 63 day (negative) which was the moring that the more severe pains started to occur....can symptoms lasting this long have anything to do with hiv....am i seroconverting right now.....this moring i have chills, headache, triceps are hurting, random area on shoulder hurts but no rash or abrasions and i think nodes are swollen(will get gp to check tomorrow)....i really hope these are caused by mono or something like that....My doc two weeks ago did a general blood test and said nothing is wrong....started to exercise daily and take anti-anxiety medicine three weeks ago...cant get symptoms to go away....what do i need to talk with my gp about tomorrow? confused...he does not know what is wrong? i just keep having crazy thoughts that got infected by handjob after she had rubbed oil all over her body to  rub her boobs against me....any help is appreciated.

[mustang78]

just an fyi for everyon out there....i was confident i had swollen nodes...doc checked and they were not swollen.....vance 2335...i am still very scared as i am still feeling fluish with my muscles in my arms and legs aching and headache....rash on both of my hand (red looking spots that do not itch or hurt).....also sweating alot....i hope to goodness this is anxiety...can ars still be hanging around at 11 weeks, thats if i were just very unlucky and gotten hiv from a body slide and hanjob...thanks

[Vance2335]

You did not have an HIV risk.

[mustang78]

having pain in my armpit area as we speak...i guess could be swollen nodes...do you know if actual hiv infected patients could feel there swollen lymph nodes or is just something a doc would diagnose.....

[Vance2335]

Post in the herpes forum for more info.

[mustang78]

many thanks scorpion....one more question...how about herpes in a situation such as this....i have had some burning of the urethra but everyone keeps telling me to move on.....scared to have sex with my wife....sorry for the rambling..

[scorpion98]

you have had no risk. trust me and for your symptoms. it could be a viral infection very typical of  symptoms. you stressed out so much doesn't help your immunity to clear the infection. it is not hiv .