I'm a fool - what is my (& partners) risk

[kwsk]

I had drunken protected sex with a prostitute in a Belgian brothel. Did not ejaculate. Performed cunnilingus on her for minute or two. My gums probably not bleeding, though they do after brushing teeth.
Now, how can I have unprotected sex with my girlfriend - we are trying for a baby - after this one moment of madness?
I know probability is low, but how low exactly. Equally, what is the probability I can pass HIV onto my girlfriend if we have unprotected sex?

Thanks,
An idiot.

[Teak]

No there is no risk period. You do not contract HIV from cunnilingus.

[kwsk]

So, HIV only passed by blood, semen and vaginal juices? However, there was a mix of vaginal juices and (possibly) blood from gums.
So I am at risk!?

[kwsk]

OK Thanks. And anyway, you do have the right to judge me... cause I did wrong.

:)

[LIZZIE LOU]

i'm not judging you...just saying that the guilt you are feeling is fueling the anxiety and fear.  

IF YOUR CONDOM DID NOT RUPTURE...YOU WERE NOT AT RISK...PERIOD :)

[kwsk]

Oh yes I am guilty. no doubt. I have yet to tell her as well. And I am not looking for any special favours to assuage my guilt either. I know I was wrong. But the wrong will be compounded if I infect her - and that is what is rolling through my mind every 5 seconds at the moment. More even that the guilt.

[LIZZIE LOU]

having condom protected intercourse PROTECTS you from the hiv virus.

i think the REAL problem here is your guilt...it's not hiv.

[kwsk]

Should I wait to see if I develop symptoms over next few weeks?

[aak001]

if your condom did not fail then you had no risk.